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My wife and I have two cats, Shanti and Momo. The issue takes place with Momo. They are six months apart in age, with Momo being the younger, but both are over the one year mark.
Recently, Momo has developed this habit of taking any toys Shanti is playing with from her so she can't play. If Shanti so much as tries to play, Momo comes barrelling in and stops her. It doesn't matter what toy it is, and has even extended to chase toys now (like laser pointers). We can't even try taking Shanti aside to play with her as Momo will come running. If we close a door, Momo will start scratching at the door and yowling, causing Shanti too much stress to play.
As a result, Shanti is now extremely stressed. She's developed anxiety about even trying to play because the moment she does, Momo stops her. She won't engage with any toy now, and has become destructive because she has no outlet for her energy. She's such a gentled natured cat too, so she won't fight for her right to play. Worse, the stress has caused her to start losing her fur and it's affecting her eating and sleeping schedule.
We don't know what to do. Please, help.
Recently, Momo has developed this habit of taking any toys Shanti is playing with from her so she can't play. If Shanti so much as tries to play, Momo comes barrelling in and stops her. It doesn't matter what toy it is, and has even extended to chase toys now (like laser pointers). We can't even try taking Shanti aside to play with her as Momo will come running. If we close a door, Momo will start scratching at the door and yowling, causing Shanti too much stress to play.
As a result, Shanti is now extremely stressed. She's developed anxiety about even trying to play because the moment she does, Momo stops her. She won't engage with any toy now, and has become destructive because she has no outlet for her energy. She's such a gentled natured cat too, so she won't fight for her right to play. Worse, the stress has caused her to start losing her fur and it's affecting her eating and sleeping schedule.
We don't know what to do. Please, help.