Kind of a long story, but a long time ago with different cats I started feeding them where they were, not making them come to the food (wet food). That worked out well, but some time after we lost Swanie, Cricket decided she wanted to be a social eater. It didn't start out too bad, I would just hang out with her while she ate her dry food in the evening. I thought maybe she was missing Swanie, as we all were. Then she started wanting to go in the bedroom to eat. Okay, no problem, I'd go in and sit with her. But it's escalated, and this is the typical pattern now. She comes into our bedroom sometime between 5 - 6 AM, stands by the side of the bed and starts meowing. It is like Meow (long pause) Meow (long pause) until I wake up. If I ignore her, she just keeps on and will sometimes jump up on the nightstand to get closer to my ear. I get up and open some wet food, but if I want to go back to bed I have to go into the guest room where she joins me. Most of the time I just stay up.
Sometime around mid morning she'll come around and start meowing. Same deal, stare at me and meow. If I stand up, she heads for the dining room where i keep the food expecting me to follow, which I do. I'll open a pouch of food and then try to find where she's decided she wants to eat. Typically, once I put thfe food down, she'll head to another place. She might do that 3 or 4 times. And it's best if I hang out with her while she eats it. Today was a new one, long drawn out meows, so I knew she wanted something. Gave her a couple treats, tried just petting her, nope. She kind of led me upstairs, and I put a little dry food in her dish...nope...so back downstairs, where I opened a pouch of food. She gave that a lick or two, but that wasn't it either. Finally, I opened a different flavor and that did the trick. But we had to try several different spots until she found where she wanted to eat.
Nighttime when I'm ready for bed, she's waiting for me in the doorway to the guest bedroom. I have bring the dish of dry food in there and sit with her while she eats a little bit, then I go crawl into my own bed. Maybe 10 minutes later we start with the meow meow meow. I have to get up, take the dish back into the bedroom, let her eat a bit (usually on the bed), and then brush her and hang out for a while. She'll go back to the dish two or three times. If I go back to my own bed, she'll start all over maybe 10 or 15 minutes later. She's usually happy if I stay in there with her and she'll curl up on her window box. I would sleep in there, but hubby starts hollering for me, and he don't quit either! It's very tiring.
So, any idea why she's started this pattern? I love her so I accommodate her, but it gets tiring. Is this her version of tortatude?
Sometime around mid morning she'll come around and start meowing. Same deal, stare at me and meow. If I stand up, she heads for the dining room where i keep the food expecting me to follow, which I do. I'll open a pouch of food and then try to find where she's decided she wants to eat. Typically, once I put thfe food down, she'll head to another place. She might do that 3 or 4 times. And it's best if I hang out with her while she eats it. Today was a new one, long drawn out meows, so I knew she wanted something. Gave her a couple treats, tried just petting her, nope. She kind of led me upstairs, and I put a little dry food in her dish...nope...so back downstairs, where I opened a pouch of food. She gave that a lick or two, but that wasn't it either. Finally, I opened a different flavor and that did the trick. But we had to try several different spots until she found where she wanted to eat.
Nighttime when I'm ready for bed, she's waiting for me in the doorway to the guest bedroom. I have bring the dish of dry food in there and sit with her while she eats a little bit, then I go crawl into my own bed. Maybe 10 minutes later we start with the meow meow meow. I have to get up, take the dish back into the bedroom, let her eat a bit (usually on the bed), and then brush her and hang out for a while. She'll go back to the dish two or three times. If I go back to my own bed, she'll start all over maybe 10 or 15 minutes later. She's usually happy if I stay in there with her and she'll curl up on her window box. I would sleep in there, but hubby starts hollering for me, and he don't quit either! It's very tiring.
So, any idea why she's started this pattern? I love her so I accommodate her, but it gets tiring. Is this her version of tortatude?