Ive been trying to make my cat adapt to a harness because i sometimes find her staring at the outdoor door BUT shes too young, shes 3 months old and the outsides are too dangerous for her. I usually put a few treats on the floor and hold her while i put the harness but she moves back as soon as it touches her so i have to pick her up which i absolutely hate doing because i know she doesn't like it! When its on i usually give more treats or her favorite food so she gets motivated to move and stuff but she refuses to move and starts meowing but i feel like the harness is important for her since she wants to see the outsides... Its been a week like this and today i took her to the balcony and she smelled everything but after 5 mins she hid and started meowing so i picked her up but she was very stressed to the point she didn't even want treats?? So i let her be, shes now sleeping and im giving her a bit of space.. i dunno what to do