You can do it! It is sort of difficult with more than one cat needing different amounts of food, but several of us here have done it, so we're here to encourage you onto your success.
I think I've gotten lucky that Saipha seems satisfied with 4 oz of raw per day. Though she certainly lets me know when it's mealtime! orange&white had some luck with adding gelatin to the mixes. It adds a little protein, but it's mostly water and helped Tangent stay full longer. Maybe that could work for you?I'm in a similar situation. I have a 1.5 year old who I am trying to keep below 12 pounds. I also have a 8 month old who eats everything and stays lean (although I think he only has a month or two left of his eat anything and stay thin time left). I have been trying to feed the older one 6oz of raw plus some freeze dried treats at night. But its been hard as comes certain times of the day and he just attacks the kitchen counter and puts his nose in everything (including my food).
Do others here have this problem; of cats attacking the kitchen before their meal times and of constantly asking for food? I can't see how he could actually be hungry as he's gained a pound since I got the new kitten. I'm always giving the older one at least something when I feed the kitten so he doesn't feel neglected (lol I'm sure that's more my psychology than his.) He's still lean and has an athletic waist and shoulders. I have that cat waist chart and he's not fat but he could lose a pound. The vet said he should be between 10 and 11 pounds and he's 12.
Its at the point where I avoid the kitchen unless I absolutely have to go there. Or I lock the cats in another room for when I'm in the kitchen. To make matters worse, the 8 month old looks like he's going to be even worse. He goes on my desk and knocks things down prior to meal times. And he also likes to attack the keyboard and the computer screen. If only they could understand that I am trying to keep them thin so that they will live longer and not suffer through unnecessary obesity related illness. But they just don't listen. lol.
I see that you are feeding your older cat the 4oz of Raw per day. That's what I need to do but probably at 5 or 6oz. I've been feeding Rex probably closer to 8 because that's what I'm feeding the younger one (some days closer to 10oz). I also give the dehydrated chicken treats once or twice a day. That can add up too.I think I've gotten lucky that Saipha seems satisfied with 4 oz of raw per day. Though she certainly lets me know when it's mealtime! orange&white had some luck with adding gelatin to the mixes. It adds a little protein, but it's mostly water and helped Tangent stay full longer. Maybe that could work for you?
I've definitely seen a difference with raw - Saipha has more energy, and her poop is much better too. She was always so picky with canned food, but she loves the raw - hence why she was eating 8 oz a day when I let her eat as much as she wanted.I see that you are feeding your older cat the 4oz of Raw per day. That's what I need to do but probably at 5 or 6oz. I've been feeding Rex probably closer to 8 because that's what I'm feeding the younger one (some days closer to 10oz). I also give the dehydrated chicken treats once or twice a day. That can add up too.
Its good to see what other raw feeders do to keep their cats at a healthy weight. I think raw makes a difference for overall health but being overweight is always a disease factor.
That's true with humans too. Generally speaking a weight loss diet for humans requires 10-12 calories per pound of body weight. But once you've lost weight, the usual recommendations are for 13-15 calories for maintenance. So its not surprising that its similar with animals.Good news: They can eat more after they hit their goal weight and go to a maintenance diet. That's my experience with Tangent anyway. He kept losing slowly after I increased his food for the first time. Then I increased his fat content a little. Today he's back at 5 to 5.5 ounces of a more average protein/fat ratio mix. He's much more energetic and getting more exercise now that he's at a good size.
Yeah, that's what I'm getting as well. My 8 month old goes into my closet and bites the laces on my shoes and sneakers. He also knocks over everything on the desk including the keyboard. The older one just makes a bee-line for the kitchen counter and starts to lick plastic bags. (I've seen other cats do this as well.) Portion control for cats is difficult in that regard as you have to cat proof your house in some ways.You're right - it's hard and they'll beg and beg (or in Saipha's case, steal my socks out of the laundry basket and chew holes in them if I'm late feeding her), but they'll be so much healthier for it in the long run.