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Hi everyone. I’ve been a cat owner for the past 6 years and I’m struggling with my newest edition to the family, a 7 month old tom.
I love him and I’ve raised him for most of his life and have given him everything he’s needed, from basic necessities to playtime, but I feel like he’s ungrateful…
When there are visitors that he’s known, he brushes up against them and wants to be petted and touched by them for a while, when he only wants to be pet by me when I come back from my classes.
And lately, I’ve noticed he’s more interested in my roommate than me! It makes me feel so hurt and jealous because just now he hopped on her bed and showed his belly to her, purrs around her, and lied down next to her face. He NEVER has done that to me when I’ve been in college; he used to sleep next to my face as a kitten, but now I feel like he hates me.
He always sleeps on my bed when I’m gone for classes, so that’s something, but other than that, he could care less about me and only care for me when he wants to play and eat.
I feel miserable that he always wants to be around my roommate who doesn’t even take care of him like I do.
I love him and I’ve raised him for most of his life and have given him everything he’s needed, from basic necessities to playtime, but I feel like he’s ungrateful…
When there are visitors that he’s known, he brushes up against them and wants to be petted and touched by them for a while, when he only wants to be pet by me when I come back from my classes.
And lately, I’ve noticed he’s more interested in my roommate than me! It makes me feel so hurt and jealous because just now he hopped on her bed and showed his belly to her, purrs around her, and lied down next to her face. He NEVER has done that to me when I’ve been in college; he used to sleep next to my face as a kitten, but now I feel like he hates me.
He always sleeps on my bed when I’m gone for classes, so that’s something, but other than that, he could care less about me and only care for me when he wants to play and eat.
I feel miserable that he always wants to be around my roommate who doesn’t even take care of him like I do.