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And looking back at prior posts, take the cats out of the equation. Let's pretend there are no cats. Mom will still be her usual snotty self yelling at me for something. I could have the house spotless and she'd still complain. I could have 5 million dollars in my bank account and it isn't enough for her. I love her because she's my Mom. It was my Dad that was easier to get along with. Yesterday once again she threw fits because I was earning money. She throws fits if I stub a toe claiming I injure myself on purpose. Unless you know her you really have no idea what I go through. If I had the money and means I would take the cats to a place that allows them and hire someone to care for Mom but sadly I don't have the means. And some on here who have followed my posts will agree it's like I"m a prisoner. I can't even walk outside the door without her screaming and throwing tantrums. And some of this is not age. Some of this she's always been like this for the 64 years I've been alive. Now put the cats back into the equation and it's triple the problems. What am I supposed to do? Let the cats starve? They depend upon me now after a year. And I'm not about to give them up for anyone. Ever.
I'll probably be MIA for just a short while. This is not a goodbye post by the way. Just to let people know (as some people have been concerned since I lost Treasure and Sopdet and disappeared for awhile) that I have 5 million things that needs to be done like make money so my bill collectors are happy, do stuff around the house so Mom is happy, take care of the cats so they are happy and do my 3 hours of physical therapy so my doctor and physical therapist are happy. Throw in eating, showering and sleeping, yea I"m booked for awhile. Also mention the fact of running with fractured rib and bad toe hiding cat stuff from Mom once every hour. lol Oh well it is what it is I suppose.
Awwe, poor Cooper is sleeping comfortably in his new set up area and now the lawn lady is coming to mulch out leaves and he'll be disturbed. Poor guy, first yesterday with me cleaning and rearranging and now today with her. He can't catch a break.
My Mom and I were outside working on her car. I brought something around back when I heard her screaming in fright calling me. I go in front and asked what's wrong. "That cat is trying to attack me". Uhm you know how vicious Cooper was being to her? He was rolling around on his back. It took everything I had to keep from laughing. Yea he was really trying to attack her
I'll probably be MIA for just a short while. This is not a goodbye post by the way. Just to let people know (as some people have been concerned since I lost Treasure and Sopdet and disappeared for awhile) that I have 5 million things that needs to be done like make money so my bill collectors are happy, do stuff around the house so Mom is happy, take care of the cats so they are happy and do my 3 hours of physical therapy so my doctor and physical therapist are happy. Throw in eating, showering and sleeping, yea I"m booked for awhile. Also mention the fact of running with fractured rib and bad toe hiding cat stuff from Mom once every hour. lol Oh well it is what it is I suppose.
Awwe, poor Cooper is sleeping comfortably in his new set up area and now the lawn lady is coming to mulch out leaves and he'll be disturbed. Poor guy, first yesterday with me cleaning and rearranging and now today with her. He can't catch a break.
My Mom and I were outside working on her car. I brought something around back when I heard her screaming in fright calling me. I go in front and asked what's wrong. "That cat is trying to attack me". Uhm you know how vicious Cooper was being to her? He was rolling around on his back. It took everything I had to keep from laughing. Yea he was really trying to attack her