This is long sorry, I'm a too-many details person..
So one of our cats was put down 3 weeks ago, and in an effort to fill the void we adopted a new cat to keep our household at the 2-cat level. I'd apparently forgotten how stressful it can be introducing cats to each other since it's been 9 years!
Resident kitty (Isis, no relation to the group) is 10.5 years old (guessing, she was adopted as an adult). Female, spayed before we got her. Siamese-manx, very social to humans, was the dominant cat of the two we had. Very vocal, which I've been told it's a Siamese trait.
New kitty (Indy) is approximately 2 years old, male, neutered day before we brought him home, 2 weeks ago. Some sort of short hair mix, about the same weight as the resident cat. A bit flinchy with humans and sudden noises, but calming down more each day. Was a friendly community stray, according to the shelter. Will hiss on occasion at adults when he can't tell who you are or if you move in too quickly. Allows me to pick up and cuddle though as long as super calm and slow. Also very vocal.
Introductions were done slowly, did not meet for first few days, just did scent swaps, and they could hear each other. Met through baby gates for a few days, had some hissing but that was it. Started the no-gate sessions this week, after New cat got a clean bill of health from the vet. Since the resident cat is territorial about food, I can't use meal times for positive associations, so we've been trying treats and cuddle times instead.
Here's the part I'm confused about:
She will growl at him if he gets within a few feet of her, and I can't read him well enough yet to tell if his reactions are playful or aggressive, cuz he just meows back at her and then will act like he's going to jump on her or something, which I've not encountered with my cats in the past, this boy being only my third cat ever. She's always on a higher perch when this happens so I don't know if he's trying to jump on her to attack or not, the meowing throws me off I think.
I guess the question really is, why does he meow at her, I thought cats only meowed at humans, not other cats? He never growls or hisses at her, just meows. Am I going too fast with the introduction and should go back to fenced meetings only? The poor guy it's loving being out of the bathroom space which is where he lives when I'm not around to supervise interactions and the only time things are stressful are when he decides he needs to go see what she's doing, which is only a couple times a day.
So one of our cats was put down 3 weeks ago, and in an effort to fill the void we adopted a new cat to keep our household at the 2-cat level. I'd apparently forgotten how stressful it can be introducing cats to each other since it's been 9 years!
Resident kitty (Isis, no relation to the group) is 10.5 years old (guessing, she was adopted as an adult). Female, spayed before we got her. Siamese-manx, very social to humans, was the dominant cat of the two we had. Very vocal, which I've been told it's a Siamese trait.
New kitty (Indy) is approximately 2 years old, male, neutered day before we brought him home, 2 weeks ago. Some sort of short hair mix, about the same weight as the resident cat. A bit flinchy with humans and sudden noises, but calming down more each day. Was a friendly community stray, according to the shelter. Will hiss on occasion at adults when he can't tell who you are or if you move in too quickly. Allows me to pick up and cuddle though as long as super calm and slow. Also very vocal.
Introductions were done slowly, did not meet for first few days, just did scent swaps, and they could hear each other. Met through baby gates for a few days, had some hissing but that was it. Started the no-gate sessions this week, after New cat got a clean bill of health from the vet. Since the resident cat is territorial about food, I can't use meal times for positive associations, so we've been trying treats and cuddle times instead.
Here's the part I'm confused about:
She will growl at him if he gets within a few feet of her, and I can't read him well enough yet to tell if his reactions are playful or aggressive, cuz he just meows back at her and then will act like he's going to jump on her or something, which I've not encountered with my cats in the past, this boy being only my third cat ever. She's always on a higher perch when this happens so I don't know if he's trying to jump on her to attack or not, the meowing throws me off I think.
I guess the question really is, why does he meow at her, I thought cats only meowed at humans, not other cats? He never growls or hisses at her, just meows. Am I going too fast with the introduction and should go back to fenced meetings only? The poor guy it's loving being out of the bathroom space which is where he lives when I'm not around to supervise interactions and the only time things are stressful are when he decides he needs to go see what she's doing, which is only a couple times a day.