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Hey y’all. I’m not really sure where to begin and I feel really silly writing or thinking this. I’m hoping I’m not alone in feeling this way.
I’ve had my cat for two years. He’s never been the type to be super affectionate and lovey (except when he was a small kitten.) but he would always at least sleep on my bed either on my stomach, on some part of my body, or right beside me. Every night. And every morning he’d wake me up for pets and licks.
he’s stopped doing it altogether now. He sleeps on his cat tree, his carrier (which he’s done since kitten hood) or sometimeson the top shelf of our closet. He’s a climber. I just don’t understand why he’s stopped sleeping with me. He rarely seeks out affection from me anymore and is definitely more of a “keep to himself” type of cat as he’s gotten older.
lately I’ve been seeking him out for pets and loves and play. Maybe I’m smothering him. Is this a thing? Sometimes when I try too hard to get him to play he gets annoyed and walks away. He still plays everyday. Sometimes a lot and sometimes not very much. I just miss how he used to seem to want to be with me. Now it’s like he wants nothing to do with me! I give him any and everything he could possibly want and then some. I don’t know what I’ve done wrong.
It sounds so silly to say but I’m feeling super rejected here.
I’ve had my cat for two years. He’s never been the type to be super affectionate and lovey (except when he was a small kitten.) but he would always at least sleep on my bed either on my stomach, on some part of my body, or right beside me. Every night. And every morning he’d wake me up for pets and licks.
he’s stopped doing it altogether now. He sleeps on his cat tree, his carrier (which he’s done since kitten hood) or sometimeson the top shelf of our closet. He’s a climber. I just don’t understand why he’s stopped sleeping with me. He rarely seeks out affection from me anymore and is definitely more of a “keep to himself” type of cat as he’s gotten older.
lately I’ve been seeking him out for pets and loves and play. Maybe I’m smothering him. Is this a thing? Sometimes when I try too hard to get him to play he gets annoyed and walks away. He still plays everyday. Sometimes a lot and sometimes not very much. I just miss how he used to seem to want to be with me. Now it’s like he wants nothing to do with me! I give him any and everything he could possibly want and then some. I don’t know what I’ve done wrong.
It sounds so silly to say but I’m feeling super rejected here.