Hello everyone, Pls let me apologize in advance this will prolly be a bit long. And pls understand this is my first (so I knew nothing of cats) and last cat.
I got my baby girl "Sweet Pea" 18 yrs ago from some shelter (awful yucky place) in San Pedro CA in 1999 she was bout 4 weeks old and the only one left sitting alone in a bowl. At the time I honestly didn't care about cats I wanted a dog, never had a cat in my life. My ex (hubs at the time)said we should have a cat cause we lived in an apt vs a house didn't have a yard for the dog ect, I said yea okay your right we can take the kitten, so few days later after she got spayed, chipped and such he brought her home, I think we sat on the couch and stared at each other for bout 15 mins, thus started our 18 yr love/hate relationship (hate on her side).
After those 15 mins we became inseparable, Wherever I went she had to go, bathroom laundry anything even taking trash out, I had to carry her with me, I use to carry her in my messenger bag on errands as well. And my goodness was she a spunky lil turd, she would run from one end of the apt to other run up the screen door to sit on top of the regular door lol or would run up the patio screen and just hang there. And vocal wow was my girl vocal. She slept with me ate with me napped with me, heck she went through divorce with me and chose me lol. I remember the first month I had her I spent 300 dollars on kitty litter cause I wasn't aware you had to just sift it and scoop it out lol I was changing her darn litter every day, till one day ex asked why I spent so much on litter lol, Like I said my first cat never had any experience with cats before.
Sounds like the perfect cat......but not quite she liked to eat fast in the mornings and tended to throw up anywhere from 3-4 times a week in the mornings every week sometimes I got lucky and she would go days without a throwup (no hairballs all food) I got used to the cleaning up the throwup I ended up just waiting up to 15 mins after she ate and if didn't toss it then, we were safe, I used to use a grocery bag and catch it tie it ip and thow it out normal routine.
Now the worst one was she was a horrible biter, as my first cat I didn't know what to do or if it was normal or whatnot. It started when she was a kitten the first day she liked to sneak up on me and jump on my arms and bite, at first I was like how cute silly kitty shoo shoo no no, as she got older and bigger it hurt ALOT. Now mind you it started getting worse and worse she was always trying to sneak up and bite me, it got to the point where I was twitch turning cause I thought she was behind me lol. And these were NOT play bites, her ears were flat pupils dilated tail flaying around, she was NOT playing she wanted blood, and she usually got it.
16 yrs is 5696 days and that is exactly how many times she tried to bite me, she got me 90% my arms and shoulders are witness to that, past 2 yrs she calmed down quite a bite she would get that look and I would walk outside or have to grab a pillow to block her like other times but I think she just got tired of it, course she started going after the dog but never at the degree she did me, and it was only me she would come after.
Alot of people would say why didn't you get rid of her ect ect you know much as she did that I loved her and woulnd't think of giving her up yea it hurt she got blood, I got scars (battle scars is what I call them) Her love when she chose to give it more than made up for it ten fold. I joked about it and said least she never went for my face and she never did except one time but I firmly believe she was trying for my shoulder but the way I had my arm drapped across my face she got my cheek. I'd take 5 thousand more bites to have her back, or being slapped on the head at 5 am for food, or her loud vocals if the lil scratches and paw pats didn't get me up.
I will say for those 2 things she did she was a perfectly healthy cat, Weirdly healthy, I took her to the vet at 16 no teeth problem, all levels fine ect at 17 she had a little ear infection antibiotics and all gone. Now few weeks ago beginning of Nov I noticed she was in her little box ALOT, I could hear her digging and digging and digging, I really thought nothing of it, then one day I started noticing blood spots, so I was like ooo kitty kitty You got a uti maybe let's go see. So I got her in her carrier mind you this is like an WWF wrestling match and my win rate ain't so good lol. So we get to the vet they got her to pee and they brought me back a syringe filled with blood so of course I just started crying like omg wtf is that what's happening!!?? Thought she was dying I was crying away and vet apologized cause I assumed I had to put her down and she said no no that wasn't even on the discussion. She said yes was a uti but that her kidney level's were a little high but nothing that was like omg shes dying right now.....
So she got an injection and I was sent home with amoxi drops for her to have 2 times a day. Through all this my kitty is fine jumping being vocal begging for table food ect nothing abnormal. Well 2 weeks go by and she is still peeing blood, but now she's started peeing right outside her box, it's weird cause I watched her do it she climbed in but her butt was raised and the pee went over the box, so I was like okay and a good way to see if she was still bleeding is I put a bag there to catch the pee and sure enough couple times of day she would pee and she was peeing over the top, but I could clearly see still blood, So I ended up taking her back and she hadn't lost hardly any weight, they decided to give her orbax pills half a pill a day it's for bacteria cause she did have xrays done and no calcifications of anything. This is on Mon Nov 20th now she has been herself mostly the whole time eating sleeping grooming and talking she loved to talk specially to my mom cause my mother would always give her treats and such. Now I noticed Monday she started to become quite lethargic wouldn't eat still drank but just overall not herself, but I chalked it up to the meds making her feel like crap. Now by Wed evening im in a little bit of a panic cause she wasn't eating hadn't pooped in a few days (but that could of been to not eating) so Me and the man went to walmart got some of those fancy feast broths and she lapped up ALL the juice, I was so excited so I kept giving her the juice and water which she always drank water ever had an issue with her not drinking.
But here I was every 2 hours giving her broth and water, and then I started watching her go to her litter box she could barely climb in and it got to where she would put one leg in and just pee on the bag....no prob easy clean then she would lay in her box, I believe she was just plum tuckered out from the few steps cause soon as she got out she owuld wobble a few steps and lay down rinse and repeat till she got back to her blankie. Now i'm in total panic it's Thanksgiving vet isn't open, she was bloated and watching her try to walk she was going side to side like if you had bad hips walk. And just a few steps seemed to tire her out. So I stayed up with her crying all day Thursday, Finally 8 AM Fri I'm at the vets.......soon as I walked in they knew cause I was alrdy bawling bout she's not right no purrs nothing but a little rasp.
Vet comes in with a very forlorn look (crying as write this) saying her belly is very full of fluids hence the bloated look and gained her a pound! She said that the kidney disease has alot to do with it, But I was like you all said they weren't that high I had changed foods, I mean what the hell are you telling me now. And she said they could do IV and such make her feel betetr but for how long.....AND SHE WAS NORMAL JUST 4 DAYS AGO!!!
I will say we talked bout costs and such and I would give my right scarred arm for my girl even the left one but the quality of her life and mine as well ( i'm on meds to) would drastically change, so I had her put to sleep with me there with her, This is where my extreme guilt is coming from, so many what if's, should I have giving her more of a chance could I have maybe waited a few days for the orbax to get out of her system, was it even the meds that made her sick?? These things I don't know and they are making me hate myself so much, part of me honestly couldn't imagine having to stick her with needles every day or maybe force feeding her that type of thing would get you a nice bite from her.
I sit here and and go over everything every little thing, I just cant get over how fast she got sick was it the meds?? Did I make a wrong choice?? Im lost..
She was a great girl through all the bites and throwups i'd do it all over again to have her back, she never complained even with the ear infection, no crying nothing till I noticed her head shaking and wet sounds, such a majestic turd she was :}, I was the only one she ever allowed to carry around and I would walk her around the house with her over my shoulder her purring away. I miss her so much.
I got my baby girl "Sweet Pea" 18 yrs ago from some shelter (awful yucky place) in San Pedro CA in 1999 she was bout 4 weeks old and the only one left sitting alone in a bowl. At the time I honestly didn't care about cats I wanted a dog, never had a cat in my life. My ex (hubs at the time)said we should have a cat cause we lived in an apt vs a house didn't have a yard for the dog ect, I said yea okay your right we can take the kitten, so few days later after she got spayed, chipped and such he brought her home, I think we sat on the couch and stared at each other for bout 15 mins, thus started our 18 yr love/hate relationship (hate on her side).
After those 15 mins we became inseparable, Wherever I went she had to go, bathroom laundry anything even taking trash out, I had to carry her with me, I use to carry her in my messenger bag on errands as well. And my goodness was she a spunky lil turd, she would run from one end of the apt to other run up the screen door to sit on top of the regular door lol or would run up the patio screen and just hang there. And vocal wow was my girl vocal. She slept with me ate with me napped with me, heck she went through divorce with me and chose me lol. I remember the first month I had her I spent 300 dollars on kitty litter cause I wasn't aware you had to just sift it and scoop it out lol I was changing her darn litter every day, till one day ex asked why I spent so much on litter lol, Like I said my first cat never had any experience with cats before.
Sounds like the perfect cat......but not quite she liked to eat fast in the mornings and tended to throw up anywhere from 3-4 times a week in the mornings every week sometimes I got lucky and she would go days without a throwup (no hairballs all food) I got used to the cleaning up the throwup I ended up just waiting up to 15 mins after she ate and if didn't toss it then, we were safe, I used to use a grocery bag and catch it tie it ip and thow it out normal routine.
Now the worst one was she was a horrible biter, as my first cat I didn't know what to do or if it was normal or whatnot. It started when she was a kitten the first day she liked to sneak up on me and jump on my arms and bite, at first I was like how cute silly kitty shoo shoo no no, as she got older and bigger it hurt ALOT. Now mind you it started getting worse and worse she was always trying to sneak up and bite me, it got to the point where I was twitch turning cause I thought she was behind me lol. And these were NOT play bites, her ears were flat pupils dilated tail flaying around, she was NOT playing she wanted blood, and she usually got it.
16 yrs is 5696 days and that is exactly how many times she tried to bite me, she got me 90% my arms and shoulders are witness to that, past 2 yrs she calmed down quite a bite she would get that look and I would walk outside or have to grab a pillow to block her like other times but I think she just got tired of it, course she started going after the dog but never at the degree she did me, and it was only me she would come after.
Alot of people would say why didn't you get rid of her ect ect you know much as she did that I loved her and woulnd't think of giving her up yea it hurt she got blood, I got scars (battle scars is what I call them) Her love when she chose to give it more than made up for it ten fold. I joked about it and said least she never went for my face and she never did except one time but I firmly believe she was trying for my shoulder but the way I had my arm drapped across my face she got my cheek. I'd take 5 thousand more bites to have her back, or being slapped on the head at 5 am for food, or her loud vocals if the lil scratches and paw pats didn't get me up.
I will say for those 2 things she did she was a perfectly healthy cat, Weirdly healthy, I took her to the vet at 16 no teeth problem, all levels fine ect at 17 she had a little ear infection antibiotics and all gone. Now few weeks ago beginning of Nov I noticed she was in her little box ALOT, I could hear her digging and digging and digging, I really thought nothing of it, then one day I started noticing blood spots, so I was like ooo kitty kitty You got a uti maybe let's go see. So I got her in her carrier mind you this is like an WWF wrestling match and my win rate ain't so good lol. So we get to the vet they got her to pee and they brought me back a syringe filled with blood so of course I just started crying like omg wtf is that what's happening!!?? Thought she was dying I was crying away and vet apologized cause I assumed I had to put her down and she said no no that wasn't even on the discussion. She said yes was a uti but that her kidney level's were a little high but nothing that was like omg shes dying right now.....
So she got an injection and I was sent home with amoxi drops for her to have 2 times a day. Through all this my kitty is fine jumping being vocal begging for table food ect nothing abnormal. Well 2 weeks go by and she is still peeing blood, but now she's started peeing right outside her box, it's weird cause I watched her do it she climbed in but her butt was raised and the pee went over the box, so I was like okay and a good way to see if she was still bleeding is I put a bag there to catch the pee and sure enough couple times of day she would pee and she was peeing over the top, but I could clearly see still blood, So I ended up taking her back and she hadn't lost hardly any weight, they decided to give her orbax pills half a pill a day it's for bacteria cause she did have xrays done and no calcifications of anything. This is on Mon Nov 20th now she has been herself mostly the whole time eating sleeping grooming and talking she loved to talk specially to my mom cause my mother would always give her treats and such. Now I noticed Monday she started to become quite lethargic wouldn't eat still drank but just overall not herself, but I chalked it up to the meds making her feel like crap. Now by Wed evening im in a little bit of a panic cause she wasn't eating hadn't pooped in a few days (but that could of been to not eating) so Me and the man went to walmart got some of those fancy feast broths and she lapped up ALL the juice, I was so excited so I kept giving her the juice and water which she always drank water ever had an issue with her not drinking.
But here I was every 2 hours giving her broth and water, and then I started watching her go to her litter box she could barely climb in and it got to where she would put one leg in and just pee on the bag....no prob easy clean then she would lay in her box, I believe she was just plum tuckered out from the few steps cause soon as she got out she owuld wobble a few steps and lay down rinse and repeat till she got back to her blankie. Now i'm in total panic it's Thanksgiving vet isn't open, she was bloated and watching her try to walk she was going side to side like if you had bad hips walk. And just a few steps seemed to tire her out. So I stayed up with her crying all day Thursday, Finally 8 AM Fri I'm at the vets.......soon as I walked in they knew cause I was alrdy bawling bout she's not right no purrs nothing but a little rasp.
Vet comes in with a very forlorn look (crying as write this) saying her belly is very full of fluids hence the bloated look and gained her a pound! She said that the kidney disease has alot to do with it, But I was like you all said they weren't that high I had changed foods, I mean what the hell are you telling me now. And she said they could do IV and such make her feel betetr but for how long.....AND SHE WAS NORMAL JUST 4 DAYS AGO!!!
I will say we talked bout costs and such and I would give my right scarred arm for my girl even the left one but the quality of her life and mine as well ( i'm on meds to) would drastically change, so I had her put to sleep with me there with her, This is where my extreme guilt is coming from, so many what if's, should I have giving her more of a chance could I have maybe waited a few days for the orbax to get out of her system, was it even the meds that made her sick?? These things I don't know and they are making me hate myself so much, part of me honestly couldn't imagine having to stick her with needles every day or maybe force feeding her that type of thing would get you a nice bite from her.
I sit here and and go over everything every little thing, I just cant get over how fast she got sick was it the meds?? Did I make a wrong choice?? Im lost..
She was a great girl through all the bites and throwups i'd do it all over again to have her back, she never complained even with the ear infection, no crying nothing till I noticed her head shaking and wet sounds, such a majestic turd she was :}, I was the only one she ever allowed to carry around and I would walk her around the house with her over my shoulder her purring away. I miss her so much.