I am curious whether anyone who has had a particularly hyper, boisterous cat could share the long-term picture of how things played out. I have shared about my situation before and gotten some good answers and perspectives. I am looking for whether more people have had this issue and if their cats ever changed. To try to make it short, I adopted a cat more than two years old last fall. I am probably going to start the process of re-homing her, but it is hard emotionally. She is excessively hyper and boisterous and all efforts to curb the way she treats my other two-year-old have failed. She is not aggressive in a claws-out, biting way, but she will not stop jumping on her and forcibly wrestling her. It is having a very detrimental effect on my other cat and I can't continue to subject her to this. I am coming to the conclusion that this is simply her personality and not something that can be trained or medicated away without harming her quality of life. My question is - for those who have had such a cat - did the way they treat other household cats ever substantially improve - as in not just that they got less playful eventually or that they got really old, but that they were able to actually learn boundaries and respect them.
I love this crazy cat, but it appears that she can't comprehend boundaries. I am looking for advice from people who have had a cat like I've described - not just a young cat or a kitten who needs time to mature - but the kind of cat that make a seasoned cat lover say - whoa - I have never met a cat like this before. The kind of cat that makes you wonder if it grew up with large-breed puppies or has some dog DNA mixed in there, (without a dog-like propensity to receive training). (Note: I have had a lot of cats and been around them almost all my life so I am not unfamiliar with cat issues or new to cats in any way - she is very, very different).
I love this crazy cat, but it appears that she can't comprehend boundaries. I am looking for advice from people who have had a cat like I've described - not just a young cat or a kitten who needs time to mature - but the kind of cat that make a seasoned cat lover say - whoa - I have never met a cat like this before. The kind of cat that makes you wonder if it grew up with large-breed puppies or has some dog DNA mixed in there, (without a dog-like propensity to receive training). (Note: I have had a lot of cats and been around them almost all my life so I am not unfamiliar with cat issues or new to cats in any way - she is very, very different).