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Hi everyone!
I have not had a new cat in a while, but we will be adopting soon. I'm not sure what gender/s, what age/s, or how many yet. I think I'll just have to see who picks me. We are starting from scratch after loosing our three babies in the last two months (all from unrelated illnesses and age).
We live a very quiet lifestyle and have no children, but we do have extended family (including children), who we do want to be able to come visit, without causing stress to our future fur babies.
Our last cat that we adopted as a kitten, did not get socialized well, our fault, because of our living situation at the time, we hardly ever had people over. He was very fearful and unfortunately aggressive with "intruders". I want to make sure (as much as I can) that this doesn't happen again as we now have the opportunity to invite guests, and have my nieces over for sleepovers and so on.
So my question is....How often do we need to have people over at the house during our future kitty/ies development (if we get kittens), to help ensure proper socializing? I understand that this mostly happens during the first 14 weeks (I think?) of their lives. And how many different people should we have come over, so they get used to "people in general" and not just be used to one or two, and be scared of everyone else.
As much as we loved Hank and as much as he was a wonderful, loving cat (to us), he really did cause us to sacrifice many things, and I absolutely hated myself for causing him to be so fearful of the world. I just want to make sure we don't do the same mistakes again.
Thanks for any input.
And to add, I get that all cats have their own personalities and quirks, and I may not be able to "guarantee" a friendly and sociable cat, but I want to do as much as I can.
I have not had a new cat in a while, but we will be adopting soon. I'm not sure what gender/s, what age/s, or how many yet. I think I'll just have to see who picks me. We are starting from scratch after loosing our three babies in the last two months (all from unrelated illnesses and age).
We live a very quiet lifestyle and have no children, but we do have extended family (including children), who we do want to be able to come visit, without causing stress to our future fur babies.
Our last cat that we adopted as a kitten, did not get socialized well, our fault, because of our living situation at the time, we hardly ever had people over. He was very fearful and unfortunately aggressive with "intruders". I want to make sure (as much as I can) that this doesn't happen again as we now have the opportunity to invite guests, and have my nieces over for sleepovers and so on.
So my question is....How often do we need to have people over at the house during our future kitty/ies development (if we get kittens), to help ensure proper socializing? I understand that this mostly happens during the first 14 weeks (I think?) of their lives. And how many different people should we have come over, so they get used to "people in general" and not just be used to one or two, and be scared of everyone else.
As much as we loved Hank and as much as he was a wonderful, loving cat (to us), he really did cause us to sacrifice many things, and I absolutely hated myself for causing him to be so fearful of the world. I just want to make sure we don't do the same mistakes again.
Thanks for any input.
And to add, I get that all cats have their own personalities and quirks, and I may not be able to "guarantee" a friendly and sociable cat, but I want to do as much as I can.