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We are looking to adopt a kitten and met them. The owners brought them all into the living room The 2 girls (9.5 weeks old) were scared and ran off, the boys which are 2 weeks older stayed and played (12 weeks old). None liked handling or would tolerate being held. We cajoled the girls out eventually. They played a little, but were clearly afraid of the room, and were smaller than the boys so were nervous. The owner is a bigger gruff guy who grabbed them by the scruff of the neck and just had a real matter-of-fact kind of disposition. Not really sensitive to the fear of the girls. Not gentle. So, are these kittens going to grow up not liking people? Distrusting people and being aloof? The owners want to keep them until they are 14-16 weeks, which is nearly the end of the socialization period. Girls also both had soft stools. Very frustrated and disappointed. Not sure what to do. We appreciate the help.