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Perhaps the whole idea of "unfinished business" has some truth to it as well. But not necessarily just from the spirits' perspective. Almost like whatever the energy is after a passing, if there is a strong enough connection to the loved one, and some openness to accept a message, they will ensure that you as well don't have any "unfinished business" that would impede your being able to move on. Perhaps dreaming of loved ones is one the easier ways for our loved ones to communicate with us because in a dreamlike state, our consciousness is gone which allows us to better accept things outside of what we are boxed into believing.I dreamed of my past cats too, and in one of these dreams I was with my beloved Lola, she was next to me, I would have liked to hold her tight, I asked her to stay, not to go away, but she replied (she could speak in my dream) that she couldn't stay, she had to leave me, she couldn't stay with me anymore.
I woke up very very sad
You may have woken up sad because you miss her, but perhaps you needed her to come to you so that you would know that she is well and that you no longer need to feel like you missed something, or could have done anything different that would allow her to stay. You did your job, and did it well...it was just her time to move on.