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I am puzzled by Sophie’s behavior. When I got her, she was so affectionate (though I later realized she was poorly from a spay scar infection). Once she felt better, she slowly became less and less affectionate with me and even started to bite/scratch. Now, she barely gives me the time of day and keeps herself to herself unless I play or when I feed her. She does want my presence and will follow me around the appartment and rub against my leg once in a while. I went away for Xmas for 13 days. She spent the first 9 days alone with a pet sitter coming twice a day and then I got another sitter to stay at my place the last 4 nights as I thought it would just be too long for her. Well, he sent me a picture of Sophie on his lap! Apparently, she was affectionate with him, slept in the bed with him, spent time on his lap and didn’t bite him once!!!! Basically my cat cheated on me with the sitter! Lol.
I laugh about it, but it is very annoying. Why does she behave like this with him, but not with me? Does she not like me or trust me? Is she happy with me then? Does she simply prefer men? I know some animals do have a gender preference for their humans. It’s all very sad. After Huxley, I desperately wanted to adopt a healthy, affectionate cat but instead I find myself with yet another sick cat expect this one couldn’t care less if I’m here or not and would actually prefer to be with my male cat sitter.
I laugh about it, but it is very annoying. Why does she behave like this with him, but not with me? Does she not like me or trust me? Is she happy with me then? Does she simply prefer men? I know some animals do have a gender preference for their humans. It’s all very sad. After Huxley, I desperately wanted to adopt a healthy, affectionate cat but instead I find myself with yet another sick cat expect this one couldn’t care less if I’m here or not and would actually prefer to be with my male cat sitter.