My girl is a lot like yours...and she, too, has a man whom she just LAVISHES attention on! She, too, follows me around, and can be found napping in whatever room I am in. Took me awhile to learn just how much she does love me, and to accept that simply being near me made her happy. After ELEVEN years, she will now (occasionally) jump in my lap for a nap. But I know now that we have something very special, maybe even more than we would have if she was a lovey-dovey kinda cat. Makes those times when she is affectionate SO very special!