Kittens Mom, this really is a wonderful, caring community, and as I've said before, it has been a Godsend to me. I don't know how I would have coped without it. I do plan to plant another tree in honor of my boy, Finn. I still feel too emotional now, but will do it sometime in the summer when I feel stronger. I am going to look through your thread for Little Mercy and Baby Mook. Such adorable names! My hope too is that I can comfort others who have suffered the loss of their pets. I really want people to be aware of this formerly unknown to me phenomenon of redirected aggression. It can turn your life around on a dime as I sadly learned. I will seek out those who need comfort. I know how much it helped me.