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I have an anxious 11 year old healthy spayed female cat who I’ve had since she was born. I also have a 9 year old neutered male foster cat (who is over twice her size.) He has been dying to get out of his foster room, so after a month of slow introductions I started letting him upstairs into the main living area of our house for a half hour a day. My cat hisses at him if he gets too close, but then when he stops moving, she’ll settle back in and blink or go back to sleep.
Morgan, the foster cat, seems totally unaffected by her hissing and will continue to inch closer and closer Even when Tiny (my cat) continues to hiss and growl. When Morgan is behind his door and Tiny hisses at him, he’ll meow sweetly and playfully. He never hisses back or shows any other kind of defensive behavior.
I’ve never gotten to this stage with cat introductions before, and am wondering what is going on. Is Morgan going for a benevolent take over? Or, is he trying to become her friend? Why doesn’t he pay attention to Tiny’s hissing and give her space? He did use her litter box the other day, and didn’t cover his business, like he always does in his boxes downstairs.
Morgan is an extremely confident yet easy going cat. Tiny is a nervous woman, although she has always seemed to enjoy the drama that fostering cats provides. She lived with another cat for the first 7 or so years of her life, and sometimes I think she would enjoy having a cat companion, but Morgan’s lack of respect for her boundaries seems to add to her anxiety, so he probably isn’t the one for her.
Thanks for reading! This is low priority, but was just curious about what’s going on inside of Morgan’s mind.
I have an anxious 11 year old healthy spayed female cat who I’ve had since she was born. I also have a 9 year old neutered male foster cat (who is over twice her size.) He has been dying to get out of his foster room, so after a month of slow introductions I started letting him upstairs into the main living area of our house for a half hour a day. My cat hisses at him if he gets too close, but then when he stops moving, she’ll settle back in and blink or go back to sleep.
Morgan, the foster cat, seems totally unaffected by her hissing and will continue to inch closer and closer Even when Tiny (my cat) continues to hiss and growl. When Morgan is behind his door and Tiny hisses at him, he’ll meow sweetly and playfully. He never hisses back or shows any other kind of defensive behavior.
I’ve never gotten to this stage with cat introductions before, and am wondering what is going on. Is Morgan going for a benevolent take over? Or, is he trying to become her friend? Why doesn’t he pay attention to Tiny’s hissing and give her space? He did use her litter box the other day, and didn’t cover his business, like he always does in his boxes downstairs.
Morgan is an extremely confident yet easy going cat. Tiny is a nervous woman, although she has always seemed to enjoy the drama that fostering cats provides. She lived with another cat for the first 7 or so years of her life, and sometimes I think she would enjoy having a cat companion, but Morgan’s lack of respect for her boundaries seems to add to her anxiety, so he probably isn’t the one for her.
Thanks for reading! This is low priority, but was just curious about what’s going on inside of Morgan’s mind.