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We lost our male cat recently after 15 years, his sister is still with us and since his passing i felt bad since she does not to come up stairs she and her brother always stay more in our finished basement it was like their own space. I put a baby monitor there and now i hear her crying i run down stairs at all hours of the night to sooth her realizing she is now a only cat in our house hold. We do not want to get another cat we are not getting up there in age and this has been so heartbreaking her brother was a sudden passing and rocked us. I don't know what to do but i need to get some sleep, if i turn off the baby monitor, does anyone would she settle down and go back to sleep if i don't come down stairs all through out the night. I am exhausted and desperate..