Good morning all!
Looking to see if anyone has extra tips. We adopted 2 kittens during our country's quarentine periods. Both were in foster homes with just their foster and maybe 3 others as guests due to visiting limits.
Magnus, the older was VERY people scared, even hiding from Amazon drivers who approached our neighbours' doors. However, he LOVES going outside. He was harness trained and began approaching outdoor visitors. We haven't had indoor guests for 6 months. Yesterday he was able to approach guests and be his normal personality indoors, very new for him. He's now over 2 years.
Calcifer has just turned 1. We had two guests when he first came home and he was happy and social. He is too nervous and does not want to go outside. As a result, he hasn't seen our outdoor guests in the last 6 months, except through a window. Last night he hid for four hours while they were over. I moved him to a room with litter, food, water, etc after 30 minutes and he ate and drank fine (treats and food) He was still tense and watching for them to come upstairs. He has seen and heard these guests through the window before and watched Magnus play with and cuddle them outside. After four hours I got him to come to the stairs and eat some treats there where he could see the guests. He refused to stay in the living room in their covered crate or on a high cat tree while we ate dinner with the guests in the adjacent room.
A few considerations:
- I'm not concerned about these individuals being untrustworthy. Magnus is VERY choosy about who he approaches and he's happy to sit in their laps. Nobel is also happy to see them (16 yr old cat used to people).
- I'm immunocompromised, increasing guests is not optional as most people are now not masking etc and most are not willing to take a COVID test to come indoors to visit (the tests are free where we are). Magnus also has a heart murmur, so his risk should he catch COVID, as cats can, would be high.
- we are already using Feliway daily
- we play with radio and television frequently so they hear different voices and sounds, including when we go out
- we keep windows open to screens when guests are outside so they can hear voices in person
- we give the option to each cat to come out to greet guests
- Calcifer's fosters were not English. He didn't understand much English when he arrived to us. He listens best to French, our friends are English. I speak basic French only and my partner is bilingual. He hears both at home since he was 5 months. However radio etc is French, Nobel only listens to French due to some weird circumstances. We are considering that Calcifer might be more frightened of people he has difficulty understanding??
- also considering that around 1 year is when they begin to stop feeling kitten-invincible
We have family coming to visit in 2 months. We don't want him to be frightened for 4 days while they visit to the point of not leaving a single room.
Looking to see if anyone has extra tips. We adopted 2 kittens during our country's quarentine periods. Both were in foster homes with just their foster and maybe 3 others as guests due to visiting limits.
Magnus, the older was VERY people scared, even hiding from Amazon drivers who approached our neighbours' doors. However, he LOVES going outside. He was harness trained and began approaching outdoor visitors. We haven't had indoor guests for 6 months. Yesterday he was able to approach guests and be his normal personality indoors, very new for him. He's now over 2 years.
Calcifer has just turned 1. We had two guests when he first came home and he was happy and social. He is too nervous and does not want to go outside. As a result, he hasn't seen our outdoor guests in the last 6 months, except through a window. Last night he hid for four hours while they were over. I moved him to a room with litter, food, water, etc after 30 minutes and he ate and drank fine (treats and food) He was still tense and watching for them to come upstairs. He has seen and heard these guests through the window before and watched Magnus play with and cuddle them outside. After four hours I got him to come to the stairs and eat some treats there where he could see the guests. He refused to stay in the living room in their covered crate or on a high cat tree while we ate dinner with the guests in the adjacent room.
A few considerations:
- I'm not concerned about these individuals being untrustworthy. Magnus is VERY choosy about who he approaches and he's happy to sit in their laps. Nobel is also happy to see them (16 yr old cat used to people).
- I'm immunocompromised, increasing guests is not optional as most people are now not masking etc and most are not willing to take a COVID test to come indoors to visit (the tests are free where we are). Magnus also has a heart murmur, so his risk should he catch COVID, as cats can, would be high.
- we are already using Feliway daily
- we play with radio and television frequently so they hear different voices and sounds, including when we go out
- we keep windows open to screens when guests are outside so they can hear voices in person
- we give the option to each cat to come out to greet guests
- Calcifer's fosters were not English. He didn't understand much English when he arrived to us. He listens best to French, our friends are English. I speak basic French only and my partner is bilingual. He hears both at home since he was 5 months. However radio etc is French, Nobel only listens to French due to some weird circumstances. We are considering that Calcifer might be more frightened of people he has difficulty understanding??
- also considering that around 1 year is when they begin to stop feeling kitten-invincible
We have family coming to visit in 2 months. We don't want him to be frightened for 4 days while they visit to the point of not leaving a single room.