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On week 3 of cat intro and I'm honestly so confused about where I am and how my new cat is doing. Resident cat is 11yr male who never hiss and tries to stay out of her way. New cat is 6yr female acts scared but is also very confident and pretty bossy?
She hisses and growls at him half the time when they are near eachother, sometimes swats. Lately I feel like she is starting to act more bitchy to him, such as going to him on her own and then hissing and swatting at him to get off of his spot. He is literally just enjoying his spot and just runs way when he sees her or gets hissed at. She is absolutely not scared of his smell, and I just get recommended to do more scent or site swapping but I feel she is way beyond that as she literally doesn't care about smells until she sees him.
Just today he was using a litter box in her room and he has done that before on past few days during free roam. She saw him walking out and decided to come closer and then she did the butt wiggling before pouncing on him and hissing and swatting him. Of course he gets scared away and just backs off and I get in between with a blocker.
I have no idea what to do. When she is out my resident cat is always wary and cautious and is scared to come near us sometimes cus she is always hanging near us. Usually when I put her away in her room, resident cat becomes more affectionate. Pet gates do 0 because she can jump very tall and the way the door opens don't really allow stacking gates. She is obviously not scared so I don't know why she keeps hissing at him.
She hisses and growls at him half the time when they are near eachother, sometimes swats. Lately I feel like she is starting to act more bitchy to him, such as going to him on her own and then hissing and swatting at him to get off of his spot. He is literally just enjoying his spot and just runs way when he sees her or gets hissed at. She is absolutely not scared of his smell, and I just get recommended to do more scent or site swapping but I feel she is way beyond that as she literally doesn't care about smells until she sees him.
Just today he was using a litter box in her room and he has done that before on past few days during free roam. She saw him walking out and decided to come closer and then she did the butt wiggling before pouncing on him and hissing and swatting him. Of course he gets scared away and just backs off and I get in between with a blocker.
I have no idea what to do. When she is out my resident cat is always wary and cautious and is scared to come near us sometimes cus she is always hanging near us. Usually when I put her away in her room, resident cat becomes more affectionate. Pet gates do 0 because she can jump very tall and the way the door opens don't really allow stacking gates. She is obviously not scared so I don't know why she keeps hissing at him.