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Hello everyone,
Im new to this website, but i have been searching everywhere for reasons and solutions to this problem that’s been happening to me over the past month or so.
My scottish fold Emmie, is now around 10 months old, she is not neutered. I had her since she was a little 3 months kitten and she treated me like i was her mother all the time, she used to follow me around, sit on my shoulder/lap/hand, she’d run to the door for me when i came back home, she’d immediately run towards me when i put my hand down at her level.
However all of this changed this past month and its been very saddening to me. Now, when i call her she ignores me, even worse she sometimes gives me her back as a response, when i try to pet her she dodges my hands, and god forbid i put her in my lap without her consent, she’d meow like she was dying. However, she’d sometimes let me pet her while she’s laying comfortably in one of her spots, even then, its like im on a petting timer that soon expires.
What makes my situation worse, is that her attitude only changed towards me. She would now run to my dad when he calls her, she would sit on his lap for hours and purr like she’s in kitten heaven. While im apparently kitten hell i miss her purring
I didnt know where to go or who to ask so here i am asking all you lovely cat people. Someone please tell me there’s something i can do, or why she’s been this way, as its been stressing me out and im really sad to see her this way only with me i havent changed her food, i change her litterbox on a weekly basis, and there is nothing else i can think of that can be causing this.
Im new to this website, but i have been searching everywhere for reasons and solutions to this problem that’s been happening to me over the past month or so.
My scottish fold Emmie, is now around 10 months old, she is not neutered. I had her since she was a little 3 months kitten and she treated me like i was her mother all the time, she used to follow me around, sit on my shoulder/lap/hand, she’d run to the door for me when i came back home, she’d immediately run towards me when i put my hand down at her level.
However all of this changed this past month and its been very saddening to me. Now, when i call her she ignores me, even worse she sometimes gives me her back as a response, when i try to pet her she dodges my hands, and god forbid i put her in my lap without her consent, she’d meow like she was dying. However, she’d sometimes let me pet her while she’s laying comfortably in one of her spots, even then, its like im on a petting timer that soon expires.
What makes my situation worse, is that her attitude only changed towards me. She would now run to my dad when he calls her, she would sit on his lap for hours and purr like she’s in kitten heaven. While im apparently kitten hell i miss her purring
I didnt know where to go or who to ask so here i am asking all you lovely cat people. Someone please tell me there’s something i can do, or why she’s been this way, as its been stressing me out and im really sad to see her this way only with me i havent changed her food, i change her litterbox on a weekly basis, and there is nothing else i can think of that can be causing this.