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dahlia
i feel horrible for you too and I am so sorry for your loss. It is just heartbreaking. Our poor kitty was recovering so well on the antibios, we could have tried to trap him again soon. And what happened to his body was so ugly and undignified. All of this is difficult to process.
We started out with (presumably) a whole little family who would sometimes show up together, the poor tomcat, an obviously pregnant cat who had a tipped ear (?) and a juvenile with the same coloring and a tipped ear.
We planned to trap the pregnant kitty, but she appeared very inconsistently, then showed up obviously no longer pregnant and likely nursing, so local tnr advised to put off trapping and wait until she shows up with her kittens. She only showed up twice since and disappeared weeks ago and I am afraid she met the same fate as her mate.
We thought the ferals lived on our side of the state hwy and stayed here, but it appears they migrate from our neighborhood to the two neighborhoods across the hwy and back again.
The juvenile is who worries me now. Absolutely DO NOT want him to meet the same fate as his parents and we’ve been brain storming what to do. As he has a tipped ear it is pretty certain that he has been trapped once already for neuter. Will that make him harder to trap?
If we manage to trap him, what to do. We have 4 now, 3 girls and 1 boy, all spayed/neutered. One girl is ours and the other 3 belong to a relative who is very unlikely to take them back.
The male is very territorial and dislikes other males, but could come around. We had to keep him and our beloved old guy we recently lost separated for quite a long time when younger kitty came to live with us. And he regularly tries to beat up the (neutered) neglected neighbor’s cat who visits daily for food and affection.
So between socializing and integrating, it seems really daunting. But I cannot bear the thought of the juvenile also being killed and I feel like that is just a matter of time.
edited to add: sorry for the book, and thanks for listening.
We started out with (presumably) a whole little family who would sometimes show up together, the poor tomcat, an obviously pregnant cat who had a tipped ear (?) and a juvenile with the same coloring and a tipped ear.
We planned to trap the pregnant kitty, but she appeared very inconsistently, then showed up obviously no longer pregnant and likely nursing, so local tnr advised to put off trapping and wait until she shows up with her kittens. She only showed up twice since and disappeared weeks ago and I am afraid she met the same fate as her mate.
We thought the ferals lived on our side of the state hwy and stayed here, but it appears they migrate from our neighborhood to the two neighborhoods across the hwy and back again.
The juvenile is who worries me now. Absolutely DO NOT want him to meet the same fate as his parents and we’ve been brain storming what to do. As he has a tipped ear it is pretty certain that he has been trapped once already for neuter. Will that make him harder to trap?
If we manage to trap him, what to do. We have 4 now, 3 girls and 1 boy, all spayed/neutered. One girl is ours and the other 3 belong to a relative who is very unlikely to take them back.
The male is very territorial and dislikes other males, but could come around. We had to keep him and our beloved old guy we recently lost separated for quite a long time when younger kitty came to live with us. And he regularly tries to beat up the (neutered) neglected neighbor’s cat who visits daily for food and affection.
So between socializing and integrating, it seems really daunting. But I cannot bear the thought of the juvenile also being killed and I feel like that is just a matter of time.
edited to add: sorry for the book, and thanks for listening.