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I made a bad decision when I was 18 and adopted a cat without my parents permission. I would frequently go to the humane society and look at all the dogs/cats there and give them some love and after a while started to notice this cat was there for a while so I ended up bringing her home. Not to a surprise, my parents weren’t happy and I had to keep her in my bedroom and she occasionally got to let her out to roam. (Probably like 4 hours on the days she was let out)
I do everything I can to make her as happy as possible. She has 4-5 cat trees in my room, balls and mouse toys all over the place, she has her food and water on different levels. I leave the windows open so that she can watch the birds on our roof. I have boxes and I play with her 2 times a day. Whether that be with a string toy, a laser, or I’ll take her outside on a leash and harness.
However, despite how I turned my room into a cat room, she claws at the carpet and meows at the door to get out. I don’t know if this is because I let her explore and she knows that there’s more outside of my room now, or if she really really just hates being in here or with me. And now my problem is in a couple months I’m moving out into a dorm room. While this dorm room is slightly bigger than most with taller ceilings, a bathroom, and extra square footage, I’m worried she’s unhappy in this small space or ruin the carpet and cause a problem with her meowing while I’m gone. I refuse to take her back because I know that while she’s in a small space right now, it’s better than being in that 2x2 cage that she had been in and in a year I’ll have a bigger space for her.
Ive also wondered if she has separation anxiety? Most of the time she’s completely fine if I’m in my room with her, but as soon as I leave she meows up a storm. I tried CBD oil, but I was told that it’s best if you put it on their gums and she doesn’t like being restrained like that and I don’t want to ruin the bond we have as I’m not sure what her past is. I put it in her food once a day for like 2 days, and didn’t notice a difference. Did I not use it long enough? Does it only really work if it’s on her gums?
I considered seeing my vet to see if it really is separation anxiety and to see if there were some actual medications she could be put on to help ease that. My thought is that maybe she associates the door with me leaving and being locked in my room while I’m gone at work? I could be way off.
I’m trying everything possible to make this space as comfortable as possible for her. Like I said earlier, I’m not a believer in dropping your pets off when things get inconvenient and I’m really trying to make this work for the both of us. Any advice/stories on how you dealt with something similar would be really helpful!
I made a bad decision when I was 18 and adopted a cat without my parents permission. I would frequently go to the humane society and look at all the dogs/cats there and give them some love and after a while started to notice this cat was there for a while so I ended up bringing her home. Not to a surprise, my parents weren’t happy and I had to keep her in my bedroom and she occasionally got to let her out to roam. (Probably like 4 hours on the days she was let out)
I do everything I can to make her as happy as possible. She has 4-5 cat trees in my room, balls and mouse toys all over the place, she has her food and water on different levels. I leave the windows open so that she can watch the birds on our roof. I have boxes and I play with her 2 times a day. Whether that be with a string toy, a laser, or I’ll take her outside on a leash and harness.
However, despite how I turned my room into a cat room, she claws at the carpet and meows at the door to get out. I don’t know if this is because I let her explore and she knows that there’s more outside of my room now, or if she really really just hates being in here or with me. And now my problem is in a couple months I’m moving out into a dorm room. While this dorm room is slightly bigger than most with taller ceilings, a bathroom, and extra square footage, I’m worried she’s unhappy in this small space or ruin the carpet and cause a problem with her meowing while I’m gone. I refuse to take her back because I know that while she’s in a small space right now, it’s better than being in that 2x2 cage that she had been in and in a year I’ll have a bigger space for her.
Ive also wondered if she has separation anxiety? Most of the time she’s completely fine if I’m in my room with her, but as soon as I leave she meows up a storm. I tried CBD oil, but I was told that it’s best if you put it on their gums and she doesn’t like being restrained like that and I don’t want to ruin the bond we have as I’m not sure what her past is. I put it in her food once a day for like 2 days, and didn’t notice a difference. Did I not use it long enough? Does it only really work if it’s on her gums?
I considered seeing my vet to see if it really is separation anxiety and to see if there were some actual medications she could be put on to help ease that. My thought is that maybe she associates the door with me leaving and being locked in my room while I’m gone at work? I could be way off.
I’m trying everything possible to make this space as comfortable as possible for her. Like I said earlier, I’m not a believer in dropping your pets off when things get inconvenient and I’m really trying to make this work for the both of us. Any advice/stories on how you dealt with something similar would be really helpful!