One way you can pet her and get her used to your smell again is get something like a wooden spoon and wrap a t-shirt you've been wearing around it. Use that to pet her. Cats like to be petted on their backs near the base of their tail. If you start petting her there with the stick and she seems to like it you can gradually move your hand further down the stick until you are petting her.
No rush. Just go at the speed you feel comfortable with.
No rush. Just go at the speed you feel comfortable with.