I know this isn't an unusual situation but I could use my own dose of encouragement. Or straight talk!
I have a 9 yr old male (jack), a 3 yr old female tortie (Jaz) and a 2 yr old female orange tabby (Rose). Jack and rose have been together since rose was a kitten and we added Jaz a year later. We've had feline domestic harmony. Until... 2
mos ago... I helped rescue an 8 mo old kitten who was living under someone's porch- Bunny. Semi feral at first but has come such a long way- totally social. Loves the other cats!
But they all absolutely hate her. We did slow introduction (3 weeks), have Feliway on full blast, use the de-stress tincture in their water... give them tons of love and treats (though treats only when separated from Bunny... I won't feed them near each other until things calm down), no negative feedback when they hiss. Jack tolerates her and will sit near her to be near me, but hisses when she tries to play. Rose is weird- hangs out near her but then freaks when bunny tries to play. Bunny does the stalk and lunge, Rose runs and turns and hisses and growls, but won't leave the room. I can't figure it out. Jaz truly hates her and has taken to staying upstairs by herself. Has never not hissed when face to face w B.
I'm at my wit's end. The constant hissing is stressing me out so bad! I'm open to any and all feedback!!
I have a 9 yr old male (jack), a 3 yr old female tortie (Jaz) and a 2 yr old female orange tabby (Rose). Jack and rose have been together since rose was a kitten and we added Jaz a year later. We've had feline domestic harmony. Until... 2
mos ago... I helped rescue an 8 mo old kitten who was living under someone's porch- Bunny. Semi feral at first but has come such a long way- totally social. Loves the other cats!
But they all absolutely hate her. We did slow introduction (3 weeks), have Feliway on full blast, use the de-stress tincture in their water... give them tons of love and treats (though treats only when separated from Bunny... I won't feed them near each other until things calm down), no negative feedback when they hiss. Jack tolerates her and will sit near her to be near me, but hisses when she tries to play. Rose is weird- hangs out near her but then freaks when bunny tries to play. Bunny does the stalk and lunge, Rose runs and turns and hisses and growls, but won't leave the room. I can't figure it out. Jaz truly hates her and has taken to staying upstairs by herself. Has never not hissed when face to face w B.
I'm at my wit's end. The constant hissing is stressing me out so bad! I'm open to any and all feedback!!