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I have two cats--a male (15 months) and a female (almost 3 years). They've lived together since March. The introduction was tough, but they've tolerated each other and we've had a happy home since April. Recently, a neighborhood cat has been showing up on the porch. The first time it was cute. The second it was loud. The third time it was scary (both of our cats freaked, one turned to run but ran into the other and they started fighting terribly).
And since, they can't be in the same room without screaming, trying to fight for serious damage and the female cat pooping and peeing everywhere. We've tried keeping them separate, but they stay by the doors and rush out at any chance, creating more fights, more cat screams and more poop/pee everywhere.
We're at a loss for what to do. We're trying to do the reintroduction, but having trouble with it--the rushing out the doors and escalating fights are so discouraging.
Plus, we have a baby in the house and the cats have already re-directed aggression at both me and my wife (leaving some pretty deep scratches both times). We're worried that the baby will somehow get caught between them sometime. Ahhh.
What can we do? Will they ever be cordial again? How was their relationship so damaged from just that one instance?
And since, they can't be in the same room without screaming, trying to fight for serious damage and the female cat pooping and peeing everywhere. We've tried keeping them separate, but they stay by the doors and rush out at any chance, creating more fights, more cat screams and more poop/pee everywhere.
We're at a loss for what to do. We're trying to do the reintroduction, but having trouble with it--the rushing out the doors and escalating fights are so discouraging.
Plus, we have a baby in the house and the cats have already re-directed aggression at both me and my wife (leaving some pretty deep scratches both times). We're worried that the baby will somehow get caught between them sometime. Ahhh.
What can we do? Will they ever be cordial again? How was their relationship so damaged from just that one instance?