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    Still Missing My Buddy So Much

    Thank you so much for all of your help, @Mamanyt1953 , @FeebysOwner , @Furballsmom , @les26 , @di and bob , and @ans5181 . Thank you for all your reassurances. It's amazing what grief can do I guess. I appreciate all your posts. I think I'll be re-reading them often as I have attacks of doubt...
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    Still Missing My Buddy So Much

    Hi, everyone. I lost my cat, Meph, Saturday February 16th. He was almost 16 years old, and we spent a lot of time together in his senior years. I believe it was the right time to let him go, but I still have a lot of guilt about his life and I just miss him so much I can't stop crying. He...
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    Lost My Buddy, So Many Questions

    Thank you, @Furballsmom , @les26 , @PushPurrCatPaws , @di and bob , @Mamanyt1953 , @Leomc123 , and @NY cat man for all of your responses and stories. I see now that there aren't really any completely right answers, just the best answers we can come up with given our knowledge and the particular...
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    Lost My Buddy, So Many Questions

    Hi. I lost my little buddy of 16 years, Meph, last night. I am just broken, and I have so many questions. Please, help me understand if you are able. *Warning* This is a detailed description of my loss to help everyone understand my questions. A few years ago, we lost the last cat that Meph had...
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    Can I stop a kitten from bonding with me?

    Hello. Thank you for that response. Yes, it will make my husband sad if the kitten likes me better. I already have a very loving cat, but my husband doesn't. We'll keep trying by having him feed and entertain her. Thank you, again.
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    Can I stop a kitten from bonding with me?

    I forgot to say, I think there may be a chance of changing who she is bonding with because of the fact that cats can form new bonds at any age. That's why I am making this effort.
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    Can I stop a kitten from bonding with me?

    Hi. I have a problem that is stressing me out a lot. My husband and I just got an 11 week old kitten. This is supposed to be his pet because I already have a cat I love very much. For the first 4 days she was here, I fed her and I also tried to socialize her by picking her up a lot and putting...
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