It's been close to a year now. I don't think we are going to get another cat as we want to travel for a while. I hope I can find a new job that would allow me to work from home so we can travel for a while.
The only way we would get a cat now would be if we find one ourselves that needs to be...
Thank you so much! A lot of people are suggesting that we should get another cat, but I can't even think about that idea, it feels like a massive betrayal. I do still love all cats and I do like to play with them, but I still cannot look at a ginger cat on the street without crying my eyes out...
I often think about this page as his memorial so I come to say 'hello babe, mommy misses you and she wants to tell you that she loves you'.
Christmas is near, but I don't really care. We didn't decorate this year nor did we watch Christmas films. We won't even be home or with our families for...
The time is passing, but the pain is not going away, not even a little bit. I miss seeing your paws walking into the room and I miss so much seeing your fur all over my clothes.
I'm a little less me without you and there are times when I feel that I don't want to live in a world without having...
I think the specialist said something like the CT was clear and he could see everything he needed to assessthe case. Now, even if she was right about the mri, her comment was quite useless if you ask me... what is the point of saying to the cat parents what they could have done when it's clearly...
I'm so sorry... Please know that you did your best to help him. You gave him love and he was happy with you.
Milkshake was an incredible cat! So loving and beautiful.
Thank you all for your words. Today I read these messages without crying. I still feel sadness, but I'm also full of love for him, so it's a sad loving feeling, I don't know how to describe it.
As soon as he passed, we went abroad. It's not that big of a deal in Europe to go to a completely...
I just want to say that nothing that you said or done is weird. I'm going through the same thing and I feel your pain as well as your love for Mouse.:hugs:
It's been a few days now since we said goodbye to Bandito. We miss him terribly and we still cannot accept certain aspects of his passing. I'm struggling to cope with the last hour of his life (how we gave a 50% cat to the emergency vets) and how we got back a poor soul in his last moments (and...
I'm going through a rollercoaster of emotions, for a second I'm able to calm down again. So the vet said that there are no guarantees he will recover. He was grasping for air with his mouth open. I've asked what we can do and if he will go anyway of we don't intervine and she said she can do a...
I'm struggling to accept that I've did everything I could.. did I? he was gasping, got to the vets, they said he has a pulmonary edema.. could have he recovered from that? I just wanted to stop him from suffering
Hi again! Bandito slept well after Pred but he did not start eating. After a couple of hours we gave him half Mirtazapine and in about an hour he started to eat (Vet's initial advice was to give him both Pred and Mirtazapine at the same time, but I wanted to give his belly some time to digest...
The Omeprazole helped, he was up all night but the sounds got better an hour after he had an Omeprazole, he managed to fall asleep in the morning, around 9:30, and now he is sleeping deep. I think it will be best to give him another 5mg of Omeprazole in 12 hours from the first one (he got one at...
Bandito's belly is very loud and reminds me of the sounds that my stomach does when I have acid. Although we have stopped the medication we were giving him before, we decided to give him an Omeprazol for this and I hope it will help.
He ate a little more (some slightly cooked beef) before...
We couldn't find those, we only found some organic chicken baby food from Hipp but he wasn't interested in that. I'm sure that we might have some alternatives in the UK, buy everything I'm seeing are baby dishes with meat and vegetables etc.
So he has about 10 dreamies in his belly at the moment, which is much better than yesterday when he didn't eat a thing. He wasn't allow in the morning before seeing the specialist and he did not feel like it after the general anesthesia. He does drink a lot of water (in the last 24 hours I...
yes.. the ver also said he can recommend some things for the constipation but he needs to eat first and he doesn't eat. We tried today to tempt him with everything we had. He only ate 4 treats (dreamies) from my hand when I came from work. I know it's not great, but we are trying everything...