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I apologize in advance for how wordy this response is, I didn't intend for it to be, but it's probably my anxiety. I actually got them at the same time, I was told they were a bonded pair, but once I learned more about their living situation at their previous home, and how they're behaving now...

I've got an update, but I wish it were with better news. Things were going... Well, not great, but alright, with Lola slowly starting to be less afraid of Ridley, though it hadn't quite made it back to even the comfort level she had before around him, when a few days ago we had an incident...

Oh, I hadn't thought of silvervine! That might be worth looking into. Both of my cats love kicker toys, but unfortunately only Lola is allowed to play with them these days, because Ridley has monstrous strength apparently, and zero concept of restraint, because he very quickly tears them open...

I appreciate the reassurance, thank you! Even separated, they definitely seem to be doing leagues better individually than when I first got them, especially Ridley. (Though he's also become almost TOO confident in the process, haha.) Lola still seems unhappy with Ridley, but before the latest...

Oh, right, as for when things got worse when I was away. It's possible me being away upset one or both of them? I do work from home, so I'm only occasionally away from them. My immediate suspicion was that me not being there to shoo ridley away when he was getting overly antagonistic to Lola...

Thank you all so much for your suggestions and reassurance, I very much appreciate them. I forgot to mention some of the details on what the layout is like. I've had two litterboxes out, and could potentially add a third, but it'd be difficult (it's a two bedroom apartment), and when ridley felt...

Hello. I'm desperately hoping someone here has some advice for me. Back in January of this year I adopted two cats, who were claimed to be a bonded pair, previously in another home with one other cat and a dog. One is Lola, a tortoiseshell, who when I adopted her was about 2, and the other was...