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    How do I move on?

    Thank you
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    How do I move on?

    It's been almost three years now, and whilst the acute grief diminishes, I still miss him every day. Stupid little things like showing him any groceries I bought, or any ribbons for Christmas presents, he loved to be involved, and I miss that so much. He was a huge part of my life, I used to...
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    When the moment comes...

    Thank you
  4. K

    How do I move on?

    I feel so cheated. Sammy developed a liver condition that had no explanation. It was so unfair. He was such a loving, kind and intelligent boy. I miss him every day, and try to honour his memory by donating cat food to the local cat sanctuary, but I miss him every day.
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    When the moment comes...

    I miss him so much, every day. He was always with me. I promised him that I would do anything to heal him, but in the end I failed him.
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    How do I move on?

    Thank you, that was such a lovely message
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    How do I move on?

    Thank you all for your replies. I am still shattered by losing him, I just can't move past the grief, he was my little friend. My partner also adored him, but I feel that my bond with him was on a deeper level somehow. I would love to take on another black cat, just don't know if I can set...
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    How do I move on?

    I'm so scared of taking on another cat, they won't be Sammy
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    How do I move on?

    Thank you for your reply. I am so conflicted. I miss my boy so much, he was such a special cat. Part of me desperately wants to adopt a black cat (like Sammy), but I know that no two cats are the same, and that I will never have him back. I am getting older, and considering moving overseas...
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    How do I move on?

    We lost our Sammy two years ago. I am still heartbroken, how do I move on? I miss him every day, he was my soulmate.
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    How do you cope with guilt?

    I had exactly the same experience, My Sammy suddenly deteriorated and we took him to the nearest vet hospital. I never envisaged saying goodbye to my soul cat in a building in an industrial estate. I miss him so much.
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    Still feeling raw after losing my boy

    Thank you all so much. Your supportive messages mean so much. I feel like I should be accepting it by now, but I'm not. I miss Sammy so much, he was my little friend, he was always with me. I still can't believe he's gone, he was such a huge part of my life. I miss him every day, he was such a...
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    Still feeling raw after losing my boy

    We lost our Sammy two years ago. He developed liver problems in 2020, and we did absolutely everything we could to help him, we never thought that we would fail to cure him. He was such an intelligent and funny little guy. I miss him so much, he was my best friend. I am haunted by his last...
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    Tragic Loss of Best Friend Ever

    Thinking of you, I'm so sorry for your loss of your beautiful Bobbie.
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    Dealing With The Guilt Of Ending A Life

    We had to make this awful decision for our Sammy. Two years later, I still feel awful about it, he was my soul mate, and I ended his life. The vet said that there was no other choice, but it doesn't stop me from feeling absolutely awful.
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    Cannot Cope With The Loss

    I lost my Sammy 2 years ago, he was my 'soul cat'. I still miss him every single day, and still cry when I think about him when alone at home because he should be here with me. He was special to me, we had a real connection, and I miss that every day.
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    Said goodbye to my little boy today

    So sorry.
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    Sylvester James

    Thinking of you
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    For Ros

    Thank you for giving her a lovely passing
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    Cremation vs burial - I need help deciding

    We had our Sammy cremated. His ashes are in a decorative box which sits in a cat bed in our bedroom, together with his favourite toy and one of my shirts. When my time comes, he will be buried with me.
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