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    Please help! Looking for advice or anyone who has been in this situation

    Thank you, I hope so. It's been a bit of good days and bad days with these two.
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    Please help! Looking for advice or anyone who has been in this situation

    I forgot to mention that Blanquita has chased Ginger at least once that I know of.
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    Please help! Looking for advice or anyone who has been in this situation

    Hi everyone, I wanted to give an update on what's going on and trying to see what can be the next steps. So far, we have been able to keep Blanquita and Ginger separated mostly but there have been a few run ins. Ginger is still a little nervous of her but is ok with going outside. Blanquita is...
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    Please help! Looking for advice or anyone who has been in this situation

    Thank you, I appreciate your comments and will be starting again.
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    Please help! Looking for advice or anyone who has been in this situation

    Thank you for replying. It's something I didn't think about that could have caused more stress. I will start again tomorrow since they both seemed to need time to readjust after all that noise. I'm hoping they will be able to tolerate each other in time.
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    Please help! Looking for advice or anyone who has been in this situation

    So, an update. I've been keeping the two cats separated and have started trying to get them ok with each other. But today I got a set back, it's been a busy day and Ginger was outside and Blanquita was hiding due to loud noises of tree cutters in our yard. Due to the busy work going on, I...
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    Please help! Looking for advice or anyone who has been in this situation

    First off, your cats are beautiful! My other cat, Po had an adopted brother named DS and they used to roughhouse like that. Sadly we lost DS last year. GG doesn't want to roughhouse with Po. And the “hold my beer!” is definitely Bianca. I think if they had been both outside, Bianca would had...
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    Please help! Looking for advice or anyone who has been in this situation

    I hope so. Though GG probably knew she was safe because there was a window between them. Still, I was concerned with Bianca's staring through the window. I've noticed whenever she sees her, she just stares and sometimes stalks. This had happened before when they both were outside. But I'm...
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    Please help! Looking for advice or anyone who has been in this situation

    *Just a little update because I'm not sure what to think on this. GG was inside the house and Bianca sometimes sits outside on the window still to I guess look inside or look at me. But yesterday she saw GG through the window and was looking at her like this. GG saw her and they stared a bit...
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    Please help! Looking for advice or anyone who has been in this situation

    Thank you! It has been quite stressful on me because it feels like there are setbacks and trying to figure out how to help them be ok with each other.
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    Please help! Looking for advice or anyone who has been in this situation

    Thank you for your response! I didn't bring her to our home, I happened to see her hiding under one of sheds in our yard in August. I gave her some water because it was hot and smokey due to fires and I was uncertain if her owners put out water outside for her. Then I guess because I did that...
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    Please help! Looking for advice or anyone who has been in this situation

    Thank you. But I am uncertain how to reintroduce them to each other after separating them.
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    Please help! Looking for advice or anyone who has been in this situation

    Hi! Thank you for replying! Unfortunately we have a small house and I don't have a room to give Bianca inside the house but I do have a front porch that I was thinking could become her own spot. She sleeps there every night but I just need to fix the screens so she can't get out and then she...
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    Please help! Looking for advice or anyone who has been in this situation

    Hi, I'm new to the group but I have a problem that I'm hoping for some solutions. Really could use help and many sites don't cover about outdoor cat conflict. So, back in August, I noticed this white cat I will call Bianca hanging around in our yard. I recognized her, she belonged next door in...
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