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  1. J

    Good? Bad? Ugly? Lots Of Questions!

    I just wanted to update! So far we haven’t had anymore fights. :) We have been separating them at night because we feel the fight was over who sleeps in the bed. I feel horrible locking out my new cat who just wants to cuddle all night. I’m hoping we can get over that soon. I’ve been in bed with...
  2. J

    Good? Bad? Ugly? Lots Of Questions!

    Thank you! I had planned on keeping them separated longer, but it got unbearable for both cats when locked up. I would let one out and lock up the other. Both struggled. I hadn't thought of a crate. I'll look into that today. Where did you keep it?
  3. J

    Good? Bad? Ugly? Lots Of Questions!

    For the past two days, they seemed fine. They would lay by each-other in the living room with us, share a food bowl of wet food, play with the same toy, and follow each other around. I don't see any bullying or scared behavior. Both eat out of the same bowl with no problems. I don't see anyone...
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    Good? Bad? Ugly? Lots Of Questions!

    I’m back again. It’s been a week since we brought Figaro home. We’ve had them out together all the time since yesterday morning. They have been sharing a wet food bowl, starting to play together, and laying in the same area. I even woke up to them both laying in my bed last night. No signs of a...
  5. J

    Good? Bad? Ugly? Lots Of Questions!

    Thank you! I’m sorry I sounded so panicky. I just want to make sure I’m doing it right! I’ve always had two cats, but I was younger and never understood the bonding process. This day trip will be great for my daughter, but I was worried about the boys. I feel so lucky they are doing to well...
  6. J

    Good? Bad? Ugly? Lots Of Questions!

    I’m also worried because I’ll be gone tomorrow during the day and I’m not sure if I should keep him locked up all day. I will worry about them locked up and together if I let him out. I just feel at a loss and a little stressed. What would you all recommend?
  7. J

    Good? Bad? Ugly? Lots Of Questions!

    I’m back so soon! I have my new cat locked up for the night and he is shaking the door and crying to get out. It’s been going on for over ten minutes. I’m actually worried he is going to hurt himself. What should I do?
  8. J

    Good? Bad? Ugly? Lots Of Questions!

    I agree leaving them alone is too soon. I’d be too nervous and worried something is going down! When they are out I’m home. I’m a teacher on summer vacation so this was perfect timing! Thanks for the support. I about fell over when I walked into the room.
  9. J

    Good? Bad? Ugly? Lots Of Questions!

    Just wanted to show progress. Ignore the mess :)
  10. J

    Good? Bad? Ugly? Lots Of Questions!

    Thank you! I felt that since they spent a few hours together peacefully before the fight we are on the right track!
  11. J

    Good? Bad? Ugly? Lots Of Questions!

    I didn’t think about letting my current cat into the new cats territory. I will do that today. My current cat gets to roam all night so I’m going to lock him up. Should I be worried if they use each-other’s litter boxes so soon? Thanks again everyone. I really appreciate it!
  12. J

    Good? Bad? Ugly? Lots Of Questions!

    Hey everyone! I just joined because I’ve never introduced two cats and I’m at a loss. I’ve been reading other posts, but have a lingering question. Ok lots of questions and I need your help! I’ve had a male cat for almost six years. He struggled when I had my daughter. On Saturday we brought...
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