What if you schedule short playing sessions with him every day? They love feather teasers, wands, wood balls, lasers. Please do not use your hands as toys. A short playing session with the cat every day creates a bond between the guardian and the cat. It will make him feel part of the family...
Hello MeekosMom! My cat has never wanted to grab her treats from my hand so I just put them in her bowl. Looks like she is more comfortable that way. Maybe your kitty would enjoy eating them from his bowl as well?... Just a thought!