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  1. RainyNightinGA

    My Cat Squeek Died Suddenly

    @Plumeria Thanks for your kind words about Squeek. My husband and I did love him very much and miss him immensely. Thank you for saying there's probably nothing anyone could have done. I do feel that's true, but it's also hard to accept right now. I think one day I will. You're right this is...
  2. RainyNightinGA

    Struggling After Loss & Dealing With Guilt

    Oh, wow, I could totally relate to that @Tilly206. I think this is even harder if you have that personality type (I do too) where you delve into research and believe you can find a solution. I think it becomes even harder for our brains to wrap around the idea that there's nothing we can do. It...
  3. RainyNightinGA

    My Cat Squeek Died Suddenly

    @les26 -- Thank you very much for the nice words. I'm sorry to hear that your cat Skipper passed away suddenly too. You're right that sometimes there is just nothing that can be done, and these things happen. I guess I wasn't prepared because I'm used to my cats living long lives ... as I...
  4. RainyNightinGA

    Struggling After Loss & Dealing With Guilt

    Hi @Tilly206 I can so understand your guilt and your second guessing yourself as I'm going through the same and I think that's part of the grieving process. But that doesn't mean you did anything wrong at all. I can tell from reading your thread that you loved Sooty so much and took excellent...
  5. RainyNightinGA

    My Cat Squeek Died Suddenly

    Thank you so much, @Tilly206 and @di and bob. Your kind words have helped me a lot this morning. @Tilly206 I'm so sorry you lost your beloved cat to undiagnosed HCM in April. I can imagine you still must be reeling from it too. I'm going to go and read your thread on HCM. I have read quite a...
  6. RainyNightinGA

    Molly, My In Laws 21 Year Old Was Put Down Today

    I'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like Molly was very, very loved by the whole family. She was a lucky girl to be so cherished. What a sad day to lose a friend you've known for so long.
  7. RainyNightinGA

    My Cat Squeek Died Suddenly

    Hi. I'm new here as I found this site while trying to make sense of our cat's sudden, awful, traumatic death. We did not have a necropsy and now I really wish we would have. I so wish I could know what happened and why and whether it could have been prevented. This past Thursday, about 5 a.m...
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