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Hello all, I really wanted to get back to this thread as I know there are a lot of concerned people who might want to hear an update. Thanks to everyone's advice that I have been able to take on board and implement, there has not been a single act of aggression from my wife towards the cat...

Thanks for the advice.

He loves lemon. We tried spraying lemon on a plastic plant he was fond of eating. Next day, we found it in tatters :D

Great advice, thanks. One of the little quirks about our kitty is had no clue how to cover his litter at all. :biggrin: He tries so hard, and we have tried to show him but to no avail. He will poop in one place and randomly cover another. I am forgetful about adding new litter but I will do...

Hi everyone. I just wanted to provide you with an update. Thanks for all your support here as I was able to use it as a frame for a discussion. The fight we had which spurred me to discuss the issue here was one of the worst we have ever had as a couple. I sat in a Starbucks, and over the...

Hi Draco, my wife has never been violent towards me or anyone else and has never lifted a finger towards me. Sometimes I wish my cat was as dumb as a rock and listen to no commands, but because he will do what he is told quite often, she clearly thinks that he should be listening 10 times out of 10.

Thanks, the reason I am posting is because I am getting to the stage that I have no other option but to try and rehome, and, being honest, I am really uncertain how I will cope with the fact I was forced to do so because my wife refuses to change her behavior. Again, that's not for this forum. I...

Hi Mightyboosh, I can place hand on heart and say she gets no enjoyment from it whatsoever. She often shows remorse when she knows she hurt him. She often says it's the only way he will learn even though we have seen time and time again that positive reinforcement is very strong teacher for him...

Hi all, Mods, apologies if I am posting in the incorrect forum - please feel free to move this to another forum. We have a 6 year old Domestic Short Hair. We have had him since is he was 5 months old. I have always loved cats, had them all my life until I went to University but my wife was...