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    Buddy Will Not Make It Much Longer

    I just want to say how sorry i am for your loss. My 17 year old boy had kidney failure as well. He went to the bridge a little over a month ago. i know the pain you feel. Take care.
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Hi Kitty Mommy, It just hurts so much sometimes. Ill be sitting just thinking at work and all of a sudden and the guilty thoughts sweep in...what if i could of done this, or could i have done that and i shouldve done better for him. I know it takes time. I know its healthy to grieve but at the...
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Hi Les 26, Thank you. I hope you are okay today also. I know yesterday was a hard day for you. Im ok for a little while but then I just get sad sitting at work. Im trying to block out the last day when i scooped him in the carrier off to the vets for the last time. It just hurts so much. id...
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Hi Les and everyone, Today im just having a very bad day so I wanted to come here and write. Idk if its cause the holidays are coming up or what but the guilt has come over me again even though I am trying to think that I did the right thing I still feel very down. Its been about a month and i...
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Hi Les26, Im sorry about your dog Rusty. But I agree. Coby was definitely a special one. Theres always one that gets under your skin more than others and for me Coby was it. Its very, very difficult to process. I think of his face and I just want to cry.
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Im trying to have positive thoughts about him today but some days its harder than others. Today im pretty emotional and cant help but think about him without crying. I know time will heal and its still all fresh to me.
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Thank you. Yes he was the most loving sweetest cat ever. All he ever did was want to be near me and I think thats what makes it harder. But I know he lived a long life. Im sorry about your meela.
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Thank you. I have his ashes on the dresser in my room surrounded by his pictures when he was healthier. Its still very hard. I think of him all the time. The guilt and grief are still overwhelming at times. I hope that he is with his littermates or friends and they are having a good time.
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Thank you, I am going to look this up later. it comes and goes, still having them but not as bad as the past few days. I hope you are doing well today.
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Thank you and I am so sorry for your losses! Its so hard. I hope you are doing ok. Yes the anxiety attacks are a nightmare. Ive never experienced anything like them. My Coby was my beautiful boy and when he left I felt like my world had ended. It seems to get a sliver better but I still cry, its...
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Thank you very much. Right now i am taking it one day at a time. It is all I can do. I am trying to just remember all the good times we shared together but then the guilt tries to creep on in on me and sometimes it just takes over and I cry. I know that this is normal. And it is part of grieving...
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Hi Les26, I have some people i can talk to, but not alot, my best friend she helps me and some family members but i dont have alot of family...I would talk to others but i feel like alot of people dont care. Thats why I came on here cause i know people understand and are very kind. Ive been...
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Thank you. I hope I see a sign from him soon. I do think the ladybug was a sign but something else from him would def. help me right now.
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Thank you. Just thinking about him very much today. I miss my boy. I hope you are having a good day.
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Im very sorry about your losses as well. Thank you, your words are helpful to me. It has been up and down, mostly down. I just miss him so very much. I do feel the lady bug was a sign from him. I never have them in my house and it was just very strange because it was on my ceiling in my living...
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Im Very Sorry for your loss. My boy made it to 17 but it doesn't make it easier for me. I dont think I will adopt for a while. I need time for my heart to really heal -- which is going to take a long time.
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Thank you very much. Missing him so much today its very hard.
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    I'm very sorry about Sebastian as well. I still am having bouts of guilt. It hits me like a train as soon as I wake up every morning. It is the worst feeling. I feel as if I'm suffocating. I have a anxiety attack. I don't even want to face the day. All I do is think about his face. I've had a...
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    Feeling Guilt And Emotion I Never Felt Before

    Thank you that was very sweet. i hope he knows that i was trying to help him.

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