New Kitten Not Adapting Well

Sherryangelajones

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We have 3 dogs and 4 kittens.

Jojo - 13 week old bottle baby who started it all

Lady Loki - 17 week old baby we adopted when Jojo was 5 weeks old

Thor - 19 week old we adopted last weekend from the same rescue

Apawlo - Thor's litter mate that we also adopted last weekend

Thor and Apawlo had a bad case of ringworm when they hit 8 weeks and then got URIs as the ringworm was healing, so they didn't get to go to adoption events when they were tiny and cute. We took them because we couldn't stand to see them without a home of their own. In the week we've had them, Thor has adapted very well. He's playing with and cuddling the girls and even hanging with the dogs some. Apawlo...not so much. He growls at Loki, so she usually keeps her distance. Jojo doesn't avoid him as much, so he's jumped on her several times. We're always closely supervising them, so we break it up immediately. We don't want to keep him shut away. He hates it. He wants to be on the fringe of the activity, and if one of the girls stumbles too close, he attacks.

He loves his people. He cuddles and purrs. However, he's also too rough with us. If we let him in bed with us, he viciously attacks our hair. A few minutes ago, he attacked and bit my hand hard enough to break the skin. He wasn't mad. We were just chilling. I think he was playing. But, like when he plays with hair, he's way too rough. A few minutes later, he was purring, rubbing my face, and kissing me. It was like he was trying to apologize.

If he didn't cuddle and purr, I'd think he was just mean. Since he does demonstrate affection so much, it's clear he just needs to be taught. How do we teach him some manners and help him get along with the girls?
 

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Hi!

Can you try playing with him more, and all of them, the idea is to try and build kitten confidence and also possibly to wear him out (a serious challenge at his age, I realize)

Also, he needs you to hiss at him, just like his mama would do. That's how kittens learn what unacceptable behavior is. Be consistent and repeat it, loud and sibilant, as much as necessary.

I don't know if there's anything that might help here;

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I'm guessing he was isolated with his health issues so didn't learn basic cat manners. A week is a short time and hopefully he will get more comfortable with the other kits and they will teach him how to play bite. In the mean time follow Furballsmom Furballsmom advice and hiss when he bites even a little so he learns humans are fragile.
 
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