I have recently suffered a loss. My old cat fell to his death on 1st May. I am still in grief. There was such a unique bond with him that I am devasted. The unique thing about my old cat was that it was abandoned and around 6 months when I found him. He was my first cat and he was a dream. It was a rough start but he had such a beautiful demeanor and had such intuition abt my feelings that when he hissed at me the first time in the first weeks, I went ape shit and showed him how angry I was. He was with me for three years. He has never hissed at me ever again. I miss him so much.
A week after his death, instead of waiting for a new cat to choose me, I went to a pet store and due to my loss, I decided to get a 4year Abyssinian partly because he would be about my old cat age and secondly throughout; his life has been in the pet store, and I wanted to give it a home.
It has been two weeks since he came home. he has been hiding and tonite he hissed at me incessantly. Expectedly, as I went ape shit when my first cat did it and it happened again tonite...there is only one alpha in this house and its not him, but I stop myself from going 100% because of i realized he is still scared. I keep comparing his behavior to my old cat which was heaven sent and I am 10 hisses away from going fully mental on him and sending him back but I know from my old cat, they have personalities and memories and i don't want to let this new cat down by sending him back. But my biggest fear is that I am unable to replicate the bond I had with my old car
i don't know what to do if he doesn't warm up.
A week after his death, instead of waiting for a new cat to choose me, I went to a pet store and due to my loss, I decided to get a 4year Abyssinian partly because he would be about my old cat age and secondly throughout; his life has been in the pet store, and I wanted to give it a home.
It has been two weeks since he came home. he has been hiding and tonite he hissed at me incessantly. Expectedly, as I went ape shit when my first cat did it and it happened again tonite...there is only one alpha in this house and its not him, but I stop myself from going 100% because of i realized he is still scared. I keep comparing his behavior to my old cat which was heaven sent and I am 10 hisses away from going fully mental on him and sending him back but I know from my old cat, they have personalities and memories and i don't want to let this new cat down by sending him back. But my biggest fear is that I am unable to replicate the bond I had with my old car
i don't know what to do if he doesn't warm up.