Leo And Mc

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Today it is 4 months (Loe) and 1 month (Mc) since they passed away. It is still hard an i miss them very much. MC first Pic and second pic is Leo :(
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What beautiful, precious babies.....
It is so hard to not have their physical presence in your life anymore, I know they are near though. The bond of love you hold with them is stronger than death, it is spiritual, so eternal. You will be blessed for loving so much......
Sometimes it helps to share that pain with others. I hope you can find peace here knowing that we understand what you are feeling, and are here to tell you that it DOES get better. You will never forget, but in time you will not hurt as bad. You will build a new life's order for yourself, one that is built on your past experiences and love for these two. They were your world then and can help you with your world now. You will draw comfort from your precious memories instead of pain, the joy and happiness they gave you so freely is a much bigger part of that life. And it can be again if you concentrate on the good......
 
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The thing is i dont have any friends to talk to. Leo and mc were my only friends. So i sit here pretty much alone. I go to work and i come home and i dont go out a lot cause i dont have friends and i have a medical condition that causes a lot of pain so i rarely go out. I try to be happy its just those moments when there is nothing to do. I know Leo and MC are not suffering anymore , but it just makes me sad. Like for 12 years i was like a hard rock, didnt get emotional or cry, even when i broke of my engagement with my ex that i was with for 10 years i was like a numb person for 12 years when my grandmother died i didnt cry. Now Leo and my MC are gone and i am like i am broken. I want to get another pet but i feel i am not ready too. I dunno i guess i feel like i have failed everything thing in life, when everything is going good anything that makes me happy is taken away from me and i dont know why. Its like i am reduced to nothing all the time, and it just gets depressing. Ill stop ranting now, i just wish life didn't suck so much, if life didn't cause pain and suffering, life would be easier.
 

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You are suffering from the grief of the loss and possibly a mild depression but that is normal when you lose someone so close and near and dear. 4 months and 1 month are not much time away from it at all, and to lose two in that short time frame it is easy to see why you feel beaten down. I was told by my pastor and a psychologist friend that it takes about 1.5 years to start feeling better with yourself after loss so you have a long way to go, and the ride is not pleasant, but I have a feeling that with some time, it might be awhile yet or it might be sooner than you think, another special one in need of help and love and a home will find you, you have too much to give to not take care of another one in need......when you feel you are ready, that is.

God Bless......:alright: :grouphug2: :rbheart:
 

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They were so beautiful. And yes, it will take time. Eventually you will feel ready to open your heart and home to a new furbaby. Not as a replacement but as a new friend.
 

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Life serves up bad times so the good times are held more precious and dear. We can't fullly appreciate life until we experience a death. Getting a new love is in no way disrespectful or insensitive, it helps us to heal by adding on to the love left behind by our loved one, not taking away. It gives a distraction that is greatly needed, it helps teh healing process.....
 

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Life serves up bad times so the good times are held more precious and dear. We can't fullly appreciate life until we experience a death. Getting a new love is in no way disrespectful or insensitive, it helps us to heal by adding on to the love left behind by our loved one, not taking away. It gives a distraction that is greatly needed, it helps teh healing process.....
Exactly correct! This is why I love Sylvester so much, he is a constant reminder to me of two great boys we lost Simon and Sebastian because he looks like you combined them together but he is his own cat and I love him for who he is, but in a way he is a wonderful tribute to those two boys whom I loved.
 

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Rest you gentle, Leo and MC, dream you deep. Your pawprints are on someone's heart forever.

You sorrow is palpable, my Friend. But this is a very true thing, "your heart can only hold as much joy as your sorrow has carved." One day, someday, when the time is right, a sweet, whiskered face will lift itself to yours, a paw will touch your hand, and a heart will reach out. The deep canyons that sorrow has carved will fill with joy. You will again open your heart to a New Love that honors the Loves who have gone on, Gone Ahead. You will honor the Old Loves through the New Love. Until then, you are not alone. You have a community that cares, who will listen, who will be here for and with you. You. Are. Not. Alone.
 

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So many people sit alone in front of the TV in their homes, no friends to talk.

So many cats wait in their cages for some people to take them home.

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Once upon a time, Mbweha (the Fox) lost her cubs. She was so sad, finding nothing to do, except hunting for Herself. She moved around the Mti Mkubwa
(Big Tree), as She always did, and feeling alone alone, under the blue sky.

The Wise Man found the Big Tree and got a rest beneath its shadow. Mbweha smelled Him and came to Him, sits in His lap and cried, as only foxes can cry.

The Wise Man noticed the Fox was alone alone and pet Her, asking why She is alone? Fox looked around, dropped a tear and said nothing.

Then the Wise Man took the Fox in His arms and helped Her to climb the Tree (foxes cant climb). The Fox grasped the branches and had a look around and suddenly jumped down to ground and start to happily run to the next hill.

The Wise Man knew that the Fox saw another Fox over the hill, for She climbed high enough to see what was there from the beginning of the time: another friendly Fox.
 
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I miss my little leo and mc :( Its been 7 months. There is not a day that i don think of you guys, and i wish i didnt have to be alone with out you guys. My birthday sucked cause i celebrated it with both of you and this time you guys wernt there. So i said happy birthday to you both at night when the 2 bright stars were above in the sky.

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They were so beautiful. They were with you on your birthday in spirit, I am sure. Happy birthday, I'm sorry it wasn't good. :(
 

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Times you are supposed to be celebrating are the times you definitely miss them the most. It hurts so bad to not have them there with you, but the love they left with you will be yours forever. Love and caring never dies. They will forever be as close as your thoughts and prayers. Take care and I wish you well, you will n
 

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Now Leo and my MC are gone and i am like i am broken. I want to get another pet but i feel i am not ready too.
Sometimes I feel I'm not ready either, though I'd like to start a new adventure.
And I wonder if I will ever ready again....
I had gone through the loss of a pet before, and I recovered, but this time it's way too heavy.
I hope you'll move on quicker than me.
 

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First let me say how sorry I am that you lost both of your boys in such a short time! Then because I’m a problem solver I would suggest you foster kittens or better yet foster a pregnant mom. You won’t be alone, you will be saving lives, you can help socialize little kittens and you will not have to commit to keeping them. (A antidepressant/higher dose might help to. I’m in constant pain .... have been for years. The stress on your mind of the constant pain makes you depressed ..... without the heart break if losing your beloved cats!)
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For some reason I think this message was meant for you. Your cats are still near you, even in your darkest time:
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Thank you for your kind words. I would love to foster but i cant, if i did foster i would probably take all of them from the shelter and leave no one behind.
 
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