Kids will be kids, cut her some slack.OMG she's such a little opportunist. I had errands to run today and while I was at the grocery store, I saw they had a sale on lunchables. 10 for $10. So, I got some. We got home and I gave her one. She knows she's supposed to eat the other food before the cookies. That's always been the rule and it's never been an issue before. Well, Aedan started crying so I went to get him. When I came back, she'd already eaten 1 cookie and started on the 2nd. I took it away and got after her. She tried satsaying she forgot. She didn't forget. It's always been the rule. So I told her since she got into the cookies first, if she didn't finish the lunchable, she was going to time out. And if she ever pulled that again, I wouldn't just take the cookies away and give them back - I would throw them in the trash. I swear, it's always something with this kid!
When my son was little, I had the dessert last rule for set meals. Lunch is not a meal, it's more of a snack to tide you over until dinner. Once he was around 12 I started letting him eat anything he wanted, but he must eat dinner since it is balanced.
Eating anything he wants may be a bad thing since I'm certain that's why there's a food shortage in the world.