Please let us know, we are worried about you too and realize you didn't mean any harm.
You're right, and I do understand how devastated she must feel even though it was an accident.I can understand though, this is a kid. Her guilt must be absolutely horrible right now, with massive parental punishment and possibly grief mixed in. No matter what happened to the kitten coming onto this site just to ease our curiosity would be the absolute last thing on her list, and might even be a trigger for even more guilt and possibly grief.