My Sweet Boy Burt

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He gave me seventeen years of happiness, this morning he gave me a broken heart. My sweet, sweet boy died this morning, at home, with both of us there and giving comfort. He quit eating entirely a couple of days ago, and with the huge mass in his abdomen it was very apparent why. He jumped up to the counter even as late as yesterday to drink from the faucet, he used the litter box until the end. He ended his life a shadow of his former self, a handsome dark gray and white 'tuxedo', his beautiful green eyes full of love and the joy of living. He was quiet and soft spoken, and was the only one who greeted everyone that visited. In his senior years he enjoyed his fast food, his Arby's and his McDonald's, and would lay on the table each morning with his head on my arm as I read, reaching out to grab it if I tried to get up. He had a side to side little prance when we called, tail straight up and a soft chirp to greet us. Until the cancer invaded our lives, it was perfect, now the world seems so dark and cold. I try to think of it as a blessing he went, I did not want him to suffer, not my sweet boy, my Burt.......RIP my beautiful little boy, if love could have saved you, you would have lived forever. May the good Lord bless and keep you, until we meet again!
 

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I am so very sorry to hear this!You have me crying!I will never forget your words of comfort that you gave to me when I lost Omelette!I know exactly how you both are feeling!I hope Burt will meet up with my Omelette so they can both be free of the cancers that took their lives,and run free and happy once again!I am sending love,hugs ,and healing your way.Burt will never forget all the love you showered on him for all those seventeen years,and he will wait until you are reunited with him.He will live on in your hearts forever.
 

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I'm so sorry for your loss. We all know how much you love your boy. He is safe at the bridge and he will wait for you and watch over you until it is time for you to be together again. He had such a wonderful life that was filled with so much love and friendship. He will be in good company with all the TCS kitties that crossed over before him. RIP sweet Burt. You will always be loved and never forgotten. :rbheart:
 

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I'm so very sorry that Burt has left you. :hugs: You have provided so much comfort to others that I wish I could write as well as you do at times like these. Perhaps I can borrow from you. There is one thing you always say - to remember that your kitty would never want you to be so unhappy and it's absolutely true. He wouldn't. Burt is still with you in so many ways, living always in your heart.

Like you, I told myself it was a blessing when my Milo's suffering from cancer ended but the pain was still there, the emptiness where he used to be. Although I still miss him every day, I can finally smile now when I remember his antics and derive comfort from knowing how lucky I was to have him share my life at all. I hope the days when you can smile again come soon and ease your pain, even if only a little.

You gave him such a wonderful life, surrounding him with the happiness of a loving home. No cat could have asked for more.

RIP Sweet Burt. Run free and wild over the bridge. :rbheart::angel::rbheart:

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Thank you, kittylove53, kat0121, and margd, for your comforting words of kindness, it truly helps to know there are others out there who understand. It's not until you lose one of your own that you realize how very much it hurts to have a broken heart. I know they can't live forever, but why does it hurt so when they go? Even when it is a blessing for them to do so, to escape the pain of living?
My husband, Bob, is taking it very hard. We buried that sweet boy next to my precious Chrissy next to the lilac bush. They will be reunited for eternity now, and will both wait for us at the Rainbow Bridge.
 

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I am so very sorry to hear of your beloved Burt, but there isn't a person on these boards who wouldn't say that he couldn't have had better parents than you and Bob, and he had a GREAT life, but no matter how long we have them it is never long enough. He is fine now, happy and healthy again, it is you who is suffering now, but you know we are all here for you and that it will take time and take many routes of emotions until you come to grips with it. Please post on here whenever you need a little comfort, we are all here for you, and I am going to grab my Angel boy Sylvester right now and say a little prayer with him for Burt and you all.

I hope that your heart heals a bit more each day, God Bless......:alright: :grouphug: :rbheart:
 

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di and bob di and bob ,
I'm so sorry, really sorry, to read this. I have cried, believe me :bawling:
Your Burt gave you 17 years of unconditional Love in return for taking care of him and giving him love, shelter, food. It's been 17 years of huge happiness on both sides.
You have always comforted us, each of us, with the best words ever. You have always found the right terms to ease our pain and grief. I hope that we all together may nearly equal your ability and give you the comfort you need in this terrible moment :bawling:
RIP Burt, you have been much loved and lived in the best home ever!
 
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mightyboosh, les26, and Antonio65, you are all so kind and compassionate in your comfort. I appreciate you acknowledging my sweet Burt and the pain it brings to lose him. You give so much comfort yourselves on this site, I want you to know it is appreciated and you will be blessed for your kindness.
After administering meds, wiping eyes, and cleaning up throw up for so long, I am at a loss with not having to do this anymore. But I would do it for eternity if I could have him back.
 

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After administering meds, wiping eyes, and cleaning up throw up for so long, I am at a loss with not having to do this anymore. But I would do it for eternity if I could have him back.
This is exactly what I thought when my Lola left me. I didn't need to give meds, clean after Lola, wake up early and going to bed past midnight anymore, it was destroying me, but I would have done it forever if it was necessary for keeping her with me.
 

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Rest you gentle, Burt, dream you deep. You walk in someone's heart forever.

And now I'm lost. This is where I always think, di and bob will be here soon, and be able to say so beautifully all the things that are in my heart right now. Your words of comfort have helped so many of our community, and I just can't seem to find the right ones to give to you. You are both in my heart, held close in a hug. Not Burt, Burt is fine, and in no pain, and chasing butterflies and napping in sunpuddles at the Bridge, just marking time until you are there with him. But we who are left behind, OH, how we miss them so! Knowing that time will dull the edges doesn't help at all. If there is anything I can do, you know how to reach me.
 
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Mamanyt1953,you made me cry with your beautiful words, you found exactly the right words to say. Your heart is big and your compassion limitless.
Antonio65, I always count on you to be there for those grieving souls, you always are there and know exactly what to say because it is from the heart.
Thank you both so much, I feel like you are true friends and pray you are blessed for your kindness.
 

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I am so sorry, I wish I could write something as beautiful and touching as you when comforting others. Bugs you will always be loved and held dearly in the hearts of your family that you gave so much joy in a life too short. RIP sweet boy
 
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Thank you Mia6 for reaching out to me. I know you understand, you have gone down that road yourself. Bless you for your compassion.
 
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These first few days have that surreal feeling, almost like you are waking from a bad dream and are between sleep and being awake. The house feels so empty, every spot my Burtie lay so vacant and cold. But I did realize this morning that having other sweet little ones present to fill that void helps, it truly helps to have the distraction of being forced to go through the routine of caring for others, it fills the empty hole in our lives. Even though it was inevitable, it ended the suffering that had to have been there, though he never showed it, it's still is so terribly painful to not have that sweet boy in our lives anymore. The last words he heard were those of how much we loved him.
 

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The last words he heard were those of how much we loved him.
These words are the best ticket for the journey to the Bridge :bawling:

It's the same thing I did six months ago, in her last minutes I kept telling Lola she was my love and my life and that she was beautiful :bawling::bawling::bawling:
I still can't speak of her without crying, it's unbearable.

Hugs to you and Bob.
 
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Antonio65, your words mean more than you will ever know, you are such a comfort. I kept telling him over and over he was such a good boy, he loved hearing that in better days and always purred when I said it. He purred up until the end. His will to live was so strong, it absolutely broke my heart to see him fight against leaving this world so strongly. Despite having an enlarged heart, it proved to be tremendously stronger than anyone knew. The poem that states " Don't go gentle unto the night, rage,rage against that dying light" describes his struggle perfectly. I have witnessed death so many times and I can say that this affected me deeply.
Hugs to you for your own suffering.
 

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These first few days have that surreal feeling, almost like you are waking from a bad dream and are between sleep and being awake. The house feels so empty, every spot my Burtie lay so vacant and cold. But I did realize this morning that having other sweet little ones present to fill that void helps, it truly helps to have the distraction of being forced to go through the routine of caring for others, it fills the empty hole in our lives. Even though it was inevitable, it ended the suffering that had to have been there, though he never showed it, it's still is so terribly painful to not have that sweet boy in our lives anymore. The last words he heard were those of how much we loved him.
If could have said anything to you at that moment, it would be, "thank you for the wonderful life you gave me. I love you now and forever".

Please let Bob know that our hearts are with him as well. I'm sure he is trying to be strong for you but I can only imagine how hard this must be for him. :hugs:
 
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