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Hello there, I'm hoping to get some advice/support with my recent feral acquisition!
A bit of history first, we initially had one male cat when a stray turned up about four years ago. The stray (Ichabod) was unclaimed and we adopted him, he is very territorial, but got on okay with our other cat and two dogs and then a pregnant feral young cat turned up. We ended up keeping the feral and one kitten, at the time Ichabod became very aggressive towards our resident male cat. We then took in another young female cat that had been dumped, who was dumped with at least one other kitten, about five months old. A neighbour took in the other kitten, but I now think that there was a third male that we missed, this was about 18 months ago and it was when Ichabod transferred his aggression to this male newcomer that he got on okay with our resident cat again .
I managed to trap the male, get him neutered and returned him to the outdoors feeding him in our shed, but recently he has been suffering from a repeated abcess on his leg, which made it difficult for him to walk and was looking pretty ropey , so I took the decision to bring him in and try to tame him.
That was pretty traumatic, as we had to trap him in the shed where he felt safe as he is very trap shy, and then force him into a carrier. We put him in my sons bedroom, ( he's currently at university), and he has a litter tray, scratching post, bed, food and water. We left a carrier/crate in there, but he refused to use them. He is sitting behind the curtain on the windowsill and sleeping under the bed, he does come out to eat when he is alone or when he thinks I am asleep. We caught him five days ago, but my worry is that he seems to be getting noisy on a night, I don't think I can sleep in there tonight. I have a feliway plugged in and some zylkene to try, but I am worried that he may be too old to tame? He does slow blink at me,but can also do some pretty impressive growls when I get too close! He shows no interest in toys, but has scratched on the post. The wowling is only on a night and he tries to get out of the door and windows, but I think I need reassurance that this will die down eventually as my poor son will be home in June and be working long hours!
I know it is very early days, and our other feral took ages to come round, but she was younger and I think having the kittens helped her settle. I desperately want to look after him, I don't care if he can never be stroked or petted, but I want him to be happy too. I am also worried about introductions, but will need to cross that bridge when I come to it, but I'm hoping for some help here if we get that far!
A bit of history first, we initially had one male cat when a stray turned up about four years ago. The stray (Ichabod) was unclaimed and we adopted him, he is very territorial, but got on okay with our other cat and two dogs and then a pregnant feral young cat turned up. We ended up keeping the feral and one kitten, at the time Ichabod became very aggressive towards our resident male cat. We then took in another young female cat that had been dumped, who was dumped with at least one other kitten, about five months old. A neighbour took in the other kitten, but I now think that there was a third male that we missed, this was about 18 months ago and it was when Ichabod transferred his aggression to this male newcomer that he got on okay with our resident cat again .
I managed to trap the male, get him neutered and returned him to the outdoors feeding him in our shed, but recently he has been suffering from a repeated abcess on his leg, which made it difficult for him to walk and was looking pretty ropey , so I took the decision to bring him in and try to tame him.
That was pretty traumatic, as we had to trap him in the shed where he felt safe as he is very trap shy, and then force him into a carrier. We put him in my sons bedroom, ( he's currently at university), and he has a litter tray, scratching post, bed, food and water. We left a carrier/crate in there, but he refused to use them. He is sitting behind the curtain on the windowsill and sleeping under the bed, he does come out to eat when he is alone or when he thinks I am asleep. We caught him five days ago, but my worry is that he seems to be getting noisy on a night, I don't think I can sleep in there tonight. I have a feliway plugged in and some zylkene to try, but I am worried that he may be too old to tame? He does slow blink at me,but can also do some pretty impressive growls when I get too close! He shows no interest in toys, but has scratched on the post. The wowling is only on a night and he tries to get out of the door and windows, but I think I need reassurance that this will die down eventually as my poor son will be home in June and be working long hours!
I know it is very early days, and our other feral took ages to come round, but she was younger and I think having the kittens helped her settle. I desperately want to look after him, I don't care if he can never be stroked or petted, but I want him to be happy too. I am also worried about introductions, but will need to cross that bridge when I come to it, but I'm hoping for some help here if we get that far!