We have had Murphy and Winston since they were 12 weeks old (now 3.5 years) We've never had one problem with them. They are both placid loving cats. Winston is the most laid back gentle cat ever.
Fast forward to now. About 3/4 months ago we had a stray start coming round, he was very skinny .. I started feeding him .. after a few months we decided to bring him in the house. Took him to the vets, got him vaccinated, did introductions over a couple weeks from a shut room/baby gates .. there were hisses and growls, but nothing serious. The stray (Charlie ) has put on weight well, has a bit of a sensitive tummy, but is otherwise well.
Charlie and Murphy get on well. Murphy and Winston get on well, but Winston and Charloe .. its hell. Charlie is actively seeking Winston out to attack him. He will sit in hiding and launch attacks on him. You can see the look in his face .. like he's hunting. Winston has gone from this relaxed carefree friendly loving cat to a nervous wreak. He hides all the time, he's loosing weight from the stress of it. He has scratches on his face.
Murphy is like a little freaking cheerleader and is on whos ever side is winning.
The breaking point came this weekend when our 10 month old little girl was on the floor playing and a scrap broke out. She got scratched. I will not tolerate this. The house is a war zone. My child crawls and is on the floor. The cats NEVER bothered her before Charlie came in to the house. My husband is very angry about it and wants Charlie gone .. he says we owe Winston and Murphy some loyalty.
I'm starting to think his way .. I'm leaning to re-home Charlie if things don't get better. Before I get jumped on for saying that, come live a day in the house and see my child screaming on the floor with blood and scratches on her arm. When they go at it, they go at it hard and it could have been a lot worse. I will NOT tolerate my child being injured like this.
Re-homing is not something I want to do, so I'm asking for advice and help with this. Short of putting Charlie in his own room when I go out and at night time with the door shut so he can't target Winston when we're not looking, I don't know what to do. I know people here are against water squirter, but its the only way I can break them up after Charlie goes after Winston. I'm buggered if I'm putting my hand between them.
The thing is, it's like Charlie actually KNOWS what he's doing. I'll see him spot Winston, get that look in his eye (I can't explain it .. like a Lion sees pray??) and start stalking, and I'll tell him Don't you dare! and he'll run off.
I am truly at my wits end and I hate to say it but I'm starting to regret bringing him in to the house. Something has to give!!!!
Fast forward to now. About 3/4 months ago we had a stray start coming round, he was very skinny .. I started feeding him .. after a few months we decided to bring him in the house. Took him to the vets, got him vaccinated, did introductions over a couple weeks from a shut room/baby gates .. there were hisses and growls, but nothing serious. The stray (Charlie ) has put on weight well, has a bit of a sensitive tummy, but is otherwise well.
Charlie and Murphy get on well. Murphy and Winston get on well, but Winston and Charloe .. its hell. Charlie is actively seeking Winston out to attack him. He will sit in hiding and launch attacks on him. You can see the look in his face .. like he's hunting. Winston has gone from this relaxed carefree friendly loving cat to a nervous wreak. He hides all the time, he's loosing weight from the stress of it. He has scratches on his face.
Murphy is like a little freaking cheerleader and is on whos ever side is winning.
The breaking point came this weekend when our 10 month old little girl was on the floor playing and a scrap broke out. She got scratched. I will not tolerate this. The house is a war zone. My child crawls and is on the floor. The cats NEVER bothered her before Charlie came in to the house. My husband is very angry about it and wants Charlie gone .. he says we owe Winston and Murphy some loyalty.
I'm starting to think his way .. I'm leaning to re-home Charlie if things don't get better. Before I get jumped on for saying that, come live a day in the house and see my child screaming on the floor with blood and scratches on her arm. When they go at it, they go at it hard and it could have been a lot worse. I will NOT tolerate my child being injured like this.
Re-homing is not something I want to do, so I'm asking for advice and help with this. Short of putting Charlie in his own room when I go out and at night time with the door shut so he can't target Winston when we're not looking, I don't know what to do. I know people here are against water squirter, but its the only way I can break them up after Charlie goes after Winston. I'm buggered if I'm putting my hand between them.
The thing is, it's like Charlie actually KNOWS what he's doing. I'll see him spot Winston, get that look in his eye (I can't explain it .. like a Lion sees pray??) and start stalking, and I'll tell him Don't you dare! and he'll run off.
I am truly at my wits end and I hate to say it but I'm starting to regret bringing him in to the house. Something has to give!!!!