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    My kitty is matting and she won't let me near her!

    Thanks for all of the great suggestions.  The Valium sounds genius to me!  I also never thought to see if the vet or a tech could make a house call.  It would be would be worth the extra money to have it done without upsetting her too much. I can only imagine how tough it is to groom a Coon!  I...
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    My kitty is matting and she won't let me near her!

    That is a great idea!  In my 40 plus years as a cat owner, I have never had to calm a kitty down, but it didn't dawn on my to ask for kitty Valium!  I am calling my vet right after Christmas.  Thanks!
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    My kitty is matting and she won't let me near her!

    I really have a dilemma on my hands. A little background:  Last January I rescued 5 month old siblings.  I was hoping to adopt a pair, and the shelter insisted that these siblings be placed together and with someone with experience with feral cats.  That would be me :) I was in love...
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    Help socializing two semi feral 7 month old cats

    Hi, I have a situation with 9 month old siblings I rescued in January.  They were turned into the shelter at about 2 months and were with a foster family until I adopted them at 5 months old. I wanted to adopt 2 cats together and was open to any combination/situation that the shelter had...
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    How can I teach my cat not to be so scared?

    I wouldn't be able to put it on my scared kitty, Ruby.  I finally got her to let me pat her during meals.  I bought every spray out there and have had no luck.
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    Rescued brother and sister kittens need help with behavior

    @stewball, your black cat looks similar to my Max with the tuxedo markings.  Max has 2 little vertical lines under his nose like a mustache. Makes me laugh.  I appreciate that you are able to understand the dynamics of my cats' behavior.  I have gotten Max to stay away from Ruby's food bowl -...
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    Rescued brother and sister kittens need help with behavior

    This is all great stuff.  I think the gloves would be a better option right now.  I can't catch her!   When I feed them, I sit in between them and when he starts to get curious about her bowl of food, which is the exact same thing, I have been putting my hand in front of him and say, "no". She...
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    Rescued brother and sister kittens need help with behavior

    Cat nap, your suggestions have been great.  I may need to get my vet to give me something to sedate Ruby.  I tried to get her with the blanket, but she just runs away and hides.   Needless to say, there has been no brother bullying; which is a good thing
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    New Cat Terrified Again

    oneandahalfcats, I appreciate your passion.  I have been a cat owner for almost 40 years and this is the first time that I am having such a tough time with a kitty.  I have had feral cats in the past and have been very successful in socializing them.  That said, I am here on this site looking...
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    New Cat Terrified Again

    That makes sense to withhold food.  I am going to start doing that.  When she began to trust me at first, it was at meal time.  Thanks Lamiatron!
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    New Cat Terrified Again

    Yes, that is how I started out with her.  I kept her in a small space and she gradually began to trust me.  Since she has been running and hiding, I can't get to her.  UGH!  She will not even eat with me present.  I know I have a long road ahead of me.  
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    Rescued brother and sister kittens need help with behavior

    HI,  They are both spayed and neutered.  When I was looking to adopt, I came across these two and fell in love.  The foster mom would only let them be adopted out together.  They gave me a discount, now I know why. He has been the aggressor, but she has never been too far away from him, until...
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    Rescued brother and sister kittens need help with behavior

    Awe, thanks for the interest.  I did separate their bowls at meal time and she knocked him off the top perch a few times.  I was so proud of her!  But now we have another problem, which is why I think Max hasn't been bothering her.  Last week when I tried to put her in the carrier for a vet...
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    New Cat Terrified Again

    I am so glad that I found this site!  My kitties have been with us for 1 month now, they are about 6 months old. The Male, Max is a joy. He is fun and affectionate.  They were found abandoned at about 2 months old and lived with a foster family.  His sister, Ruby is completely scared of...
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    Help me name this cute kitty please :)

    I know, right?  For example, last year she rescued a kitten and they couldn't decide on a name (per usual).  My nieces, who are late teens early twenties, just called him Kitty.  My sister tested names on him and finally about a month later she decided he was Rocky. Last night I was at her...
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