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hello again sweet cat site friends, I have posted a few times here and have received great advice, and am back once more for some more help. a little background on our situation: my girlfriend and I moved in together in September in a large communal house that I was already living at with my...

hello catsite friends! I posted a thread previously about feeling hopeless introducing Legs and Coca when my girlfriend and I moved in together back in September. From that post, we are having much progress with them and are pretty much feeling like it's now a territorial issue as they can hang...

UPDATE: 5 days later, after spending more quality time with them together seems to have worked wonders. They are adapting to each other's presence and Coca has a little hiss at the sight of Legs on the balcony but then is fine and even walked away once to eat! I even just held Legs in the room...

hi thank you for all this info! I'm posting an update now.

we did scent swapping yes. okay we're definitely going to try to spend more time with them and let them "fight" through the glass door since they definitely can't hurt each other then.

hi, thank you for your response! yes you are right that they are missing the meaningful proximity time. Also, it is very important to add that the door door behind the screen door stays closed right now except for when they are having a "kitty intro" (eating ear to ear on either side), because...

ADDITIONAL EDIT: my mom keeps advising us to just take down the barrier and they will work it out on their own and get over it. Seems like bad advice?

EDIT: I've also been sleeping with Legs almost every night in the living room on the couch to make sure she doesn't feel abandoned.

hello cat people! I'm hoping for a bit of advice in regards to next steps my gf and I can take in intro-ing our cats. here's the story: We moved in together in September, almost three months ago now. I was already living in this house with my 2.5 y/o calico Legs for about 8 months. I moved into...