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    Am I crazy? (Questions, self-doubt, looking for reassurance)

    you guys went all out! That's so cool. The smell sounds terrible. I wonder if that was chemicals to treat the wood? Either way, it looks great and I love the idea of your changes and additions. That gives me some good ideas. Thanks! Happy New Year! :)
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    Does my cat not like me?

    Please don't think that your cat doesn't like you! My orange tabby girl is the same way. She does NOT like to be held. I can hold our latest adoptee, a very damaged shelter rescue, longer than I can hold my girl of 4 years now. She is not a lap cat at all. She really only jumps on the bed to...
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    Am I crazy? (Questions, self-doubt, looking for reassurance)

    Thank you! And I agree with all that 100% :)
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    Am I crazy? (Questions, self-doubt, looking for reassurance)

    Mochi is actually a girl, with the strength of a strong fellow!! She is STRONG! My other tux is a boy 😻
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    Am I crazy? (Questions, self-doubt, looking for reassurance)

    Mochis room. There’s another window on the opposite wall with a shelving unit, 2 tiers, each with a kitty bed for napping and bird watching. Along with a human bed and of course litter box in a corner
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    Am I crazy? (Questions, self-doubt, looking for reassurance)

    awww! It's so worth it and such a small price to pay for their happiness. I don't have the tunnel attachment. I may have to get it as an add on
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    Am I crazy? (Questions, self-doubt, looking for reassurance)

    let me try that again...
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    Am I crazy? (Questions, self-doubt, looking for reassurance)

    Oh good luck! Feel free to contact me anytime if you need help. We're still a work in process over here, so it's great to bounce ideas off each other. It can be really overwhelming at times and sometimes I feel completely lost. It's nice to share ideas with others going through the process as...
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    Am I crazy? (Questions, self-doubt, looking for reassurance)

    May I ask where you got the awesome cat enclosure? It's so neat!
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    Am I crazy? (Questions, self-doubt, looking for reassurance)

    What a cool cat set up!!! You're little nuggets are pretty lucky as well! I actually have a meeting with a contractor tomorrow to see about building a small catio/screen porch my the cats and myself. Just something big enough to put a couple chairs and so they can have more access to the...
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    Am I crazy? (Questions, self-doubt, looking for reassurance)

    Thank you. I have to say, being able to share and get advice and support from this group has been a great help! Us cat moms need each other! :) Keep up the good work.
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    Am I crazy? (Questions, self-doubt, looking for reassurance)

    Thank you! I agree. The two resident cats will give a hiss now and again, and my girl lets the boy (who's younger) know when she's had enough. But there has NEVER been a fight or even swatting. Never. My Sherbert and Kubo are so sweet and so chill... my boyfriend was thinking that because of...
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    Need Advice On How To Progress Cat Introduction! New Cat, 2 Resident Cats

    Hey there! I just came across this thread by recommendation after my own post. 3 months ago we adopted a 3 1/2 year old shelter kitty with a rough past. Since then we've been working at introductions with our 2 resident cats. 2 times the fun!! lol! It's been a very slow process. VERY SLOW! You...
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    Am I crazy? (Questions, self-doubt, looking for reassurance)

    Thank you! And that's the thing.. after talking to her, and knowing her for awhile now, I know that her household isn't exactly peaceful. She thinks that the fighting and swatting is just normal. She's never properly introduced any of her cats. Just throws them together and let whatever happens...
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    Am I crazy? (Questions, self-doubt, looking for reassurance)

    I agree. They are all SO different. Though I have to say, it's exhausting!!! But it is getting easier, on my part.
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