I really have no ideas as to what you can cook.
I'll be having a housefull later to today for the game too...we're just doing chips, dip, pizza, wings and of course the guys HAVE to have their beer.
GO STEELERS!!!!!!!!
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Anyone who would mock you is just heartless IMO.
You can come and talk to us, nobody here would ever mock you for feeling pain over the loss of someone you loved.
Rest In Peace, Nala