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    Am i a bad person?

    Ten years I lost my Burmese cat Eva. I still miss her. A DAY after she died I knew I was going to get another cat. A WEEK after she was killed I started the process of finding another cat. I wasn't even grieving - I was still in shock. The grief was horrific and lasted months, but my TWO new...
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    It's been a month my beautiful boy...

    Remind yourself that, ultimately, we can NEVER save them. Forgiveness for yourself comes from knowing you did what anyone reasonable would expect from someone that cares for an animal. The very fact that you are on this board, and clearly in pain, suggests very strongly that you did that and...
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    It's been a month my beautiful boy...

    It's been years since I lost my little Eva, and I still think about her often. There is no timeline for Grief, and no end-date for love. No-one here will judge you in the slightest. I DO question your guilt. I see no failing in your actions, no lack of love and care in your words. You did...
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    Post your sleeping beauties!!!

    Ren and Loki. Never far apart.
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    When the moment comes...

    Sorry for your loss :(
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    Ren and Loki today

    I'm convinced they have. It's been there since day 1. Let's go back through time...
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    Ren and Loki today

    Caught the two of them having a nap. Certainly melted my heart....
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    Playing with a new lens - Mia catching the last rays of the day.

    Playing with a new portrait lens. My photo editing software isn't on this laptop so these are raw photos
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    What have you learned about cats since owning one?

    What have I learned about cats since owning one? That you don't 'own' cats.
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    Bob the Street Cat has passed away

    James lives with a woman and her cat pom-pom.
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    Bob the Street Cat has passed away

    I met Bob a couple of times. They were minor celebrities in London. what a shame. I bet James is devastated. bob pulled him out of a very dark place.
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    Putting a collar on my cat

    My cats are indoor only. they are chipped but wear no collar. Even the break away ones can fail to break away (it's rare).
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    Said goodbye to Tarka on Tuesday

    Saw this today and thought of you I Walk With You I stood by your bed last night, I came to have a peep. I could see that you were crying, You found it hard to sleep. I whined to you softly as you brushed away a tear, “It’s me, I haven’t left you, I’m well, I’m fine, I’m here.” I was close to...
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    Said goodbye to Tarka on Tuesday

    Got your PM and said what I need to say in there, but just wanted you to know I'd read this too. She really was a beauty.
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