In my feeble attempt to supplant your apparent frustration, I merely meant to suggest that sometimes there is no 'order' or 'vents' that free oneself at all. Many times they can serve to chain oneself to those very feelings they wish to get through and beyond.My trouble isn't a lack or an insufficiency of feelings. My flaw is the belief that there is an order and finiteness to all of this. That if I vent all the "ifs" and "shoulds" and the relief and resentment, that I can be free of those feelings first. That if I can shed more tears now, I'll have fewer left to shed later.
But, grieving is a personal path, and I hope you find one that you are looking for. I meant - and mean - nothing less for you.
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